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Greetings, friends and listeners, and welcome to our program of the RG. Hardy Ministries. I'm Sharon Knotts thanking you for joining us today, because we know that faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God.
Today's message by my father, Brother Hardy, the Faith Connection, is extremely important, because everything we receive from God from the moment we're saved and everything thereafter, we must receive by faith. The good news is, you have faith, because God has dealt to every man the measure of faith. So regardless of what your need is or how great, you can make the faith connection.
Praise the Lord! We're going to start on a new message this morning, and the title of the message is, Faith, F-A-I-T-H, and how to make the faith connection. Faith is one of the greatest messages in the Bible.
Romans 1, 16 and 17 said, paul said, I'm not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, for it is the power of God unto salvation. To the Jew first and also to the Greek, he said, for therein, the gospel, is the righteousness of God revealed from faith to faith. The just shall live by faith.
Faith gives us life, spiritual life.
First of all, paul said in Hebrews, or Romans 12.3, said, I speak to every man, not to think of himself more highly than he ought, but even as God has given to him the measure of faith. Every one that's saved, when they get born again, God dips in his great attribute of faith and gives everyone the measure of faith. Faith is something you have.
Nowhere in the Bible does it tell you to pray for faith. You already have faith. And faith increases by using it.
You have the measure of faith. Somebody said to me, Brother Hardy, well, I only got the smallest measure. But let me tell you, it's not the quantity.
It's the quality of the faith. And the faith is so potent that Jesus said, if you only have the faith of a grain, a mustard seed, then he pointed to the mountain and said, you could speak to Yonder Mountain and tell it to be moved. And if you would not doubt in your heart, you would have what so ever you say it.
Can you get that? That blows me away. That absolutely blows me away because that brings me up into the place where God is because God gets what he says.
And by us using this great attribute of faith, the same faith that God has, the same faith when he stepped out to begin creation, when there was nothing, all there was was God, the Word of God, and the Spirit of God, and his plan and purpose. And he had faith, and he said, Let there be. And there was, and there is.
We're here because of God using his faith. And the same faith that worked miracles in the beginning and during Jesus' ministry is the same faith we have. We got a measure.
We got enough. The reason why there's different measures is because God has called his people and given them different responsibilities. Some have a position where they need more faith than the other person.
But don't be afraid. You have the amount of faith that you need to live victorious in this life and have everything you need and to be able to overcome the devil and whatever trial or test comes. You've got it, but you've got to put it in to operation.
James said, faith without works is dead. Well, in other words, faith that's not in operation is no better than a person that doesn't have faith. It's jay in their dormant, but that faith that God has given us is so powerful that it can move the mountains in our life.
Any obstacle that the devil puts in the way, faith in God and His Word can move it out of the way, because our God said He can make a way where there don't seem to be a way, you know? To us, we can't seem to see the way, but God's the way, and our faith in God is the way out of all of our dilemmas, to give us victory in every phase of our life, to overcome any enemy and any power that would come against us. Faith enables us to overcome the world.
paul said, and this is the victory that overcomes the world, what? Even our faith. We can overcome the whole world.
Let the whole world come against us with all of its power, but our faith in God and His Word and His power will overcome the world and any obstacles. I'll give him a good clap off of him if you're going to do it.
Hallelujah.
Got any mountains you can't climb? One songwriter said, have you any, huh? Rivers you can't cross?
No mountains you can tunnel through? I got news for you. Faith in God will give you the victory.
Hallelujah.
I'm glad I got it. I'm excited about it. And as I use my faith, and as you use your faith that you already have, then you're gonna live.
I said, you're gonna live. You know, some people just exist, but we're gonna live. Jesus said, I've come that you might have life and have it more abundantly.
You're gonna have abundant life. How many say amen?
Hallelujah.
Hebrews 11.5 says, But without faith, it is impossible to please God. For he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he's a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. Believe that he is.
In other words, believe that he's omnipotent. Believe that God can do it. I found out, serving him in the 50 years, that he can do anything, but one thing I found out he can't do is he can't fail.
God can do anything but fail. There is nothing impossible with God. He said, with man, it is impossible some things, but with God, all things are possible.
And if thou canst believe, which means put your faith in the operation, all things become possible to him that believe that. I mean, do you get that? That blows me away.
Faith takes me out of just a mere son of Adam and places me over here, a son of God, with the attribute of faith, and I can reproduce what God does. All things are possible to him that believes. Faith makes it possible.
There's nothing impossible to you and I. God never asked us to do something that's impossible, but he gives us the grace and the faith to do it. How many say amen?
If God tells you to do something, then get out there and start acting, because God's going to make it possible. God's going to bring it to pass. Some people think they're doing it.
Now without God, you can do nothing. paul said without God, you can do nothing, but then he said, with God, I can do all things through Christ. Who strengthens me?
Who energizes me? Who gives me his ability? Who makes it possible?
All things are possible, because God makes it possible. How many say amen? It's the only way you can come to God.
I think I preached last week about Jacob. He was quoting the word of God, but he wouldn't believe in the word of God. I mean, a lot of people, when they pray, they quote the word of God, but they're not believing it.
You can quote the word all you want, and you got to get up and act on the word. Believe the word. How many say amen?
Faith, as it were, is our spiritual money.
In order for us to operate in this natural world, we got to have money. I don't have to elaborate on that. You can't buy no food without money.
You're not going to go to the grocery store, and the guy's going to give you your food because you're like me, you're good looking. That don't work. Your landlord isn't going to accept you.
What he's looking for is that greenback.
That's the thing that pleases the grocery store man, the rent man. When you go to Walmart, of course, we like to go to Sally's here, but we won't tell you about that. We'll tell you about that a little later.
Hema-de-seh-yemen. You got to be in the clique here, that R. Sally's store.
You can want all that. You can go into an automobile dealer. Oh, man, he's so...
Oh, I like that model. I like that thing. I like that little bell that's on it, or I like that little switches on it.
Hema-de-seh-yemen. And the man says, I got it. I said, yeah, I like to have it.
He says, you got the thing that's gonna please me? Huh? He wants to know if you got that thing's gonna please him.
And you don't have that thing to please him, you're gonna displease him. He gonna get mad, get you out of there, you're wasting his time. And when you come to God, you got to bring to him the thing that pleases him.
But you got the thing that pleases him. You got that faith. You got that spiritual money.
Faith comes by hearing, doesn't it? Everybody's saying, I have the thing that pleases God. What I gotta do is mix the exchange.
He's got the thing that pleases me. You know God's in business.
He's the greatest business person in the world. His warehouses are full. He's got it stocked.
How many say Amen? You know, some people got more faith in Spiegel's catalog and Sears' catalog than they do the Word of God. How many say Amen?
They call those catalogs wish book. You know, you get Sears' catalog and say, I wish I had that, and I wish I had that, and I wish I had that. But the Word of God is the faith book.
It gets you what you wish. How many say Amen? Wish books.
They'll send you out a catalog, and you've been waiting for some article to come on sale. Like that woman, you know, she found that dress got 20 pleats. I wouldn't know why she'd want that, kind of arm that thing.
Have them say Amen. Or that man, that fishing rod that he's been wanting. I used to say tool, but they don't work anymore.
They fish. How many say Amen? And they'll describe that dress or that fishing rod and reel, or even put a picture of it in there.
And you know what? They'll give you a catalog number and say, send me $100, and I'll give you that dress, and I'll give you that fishing pole, and you don't think nothing about it. You take a...
open up your checkbook, you write it out, you put the number in, you send it in, tell them, I want one of these numbers so-and-so, and if it's really a good deal, you say, I want 10 of them. And you give them the number, and you write your check out for it. Now, you don't know whether they have that.
You don't know whether they have it. All you've got is evidence, is a picture and a number. But you'll send your great money, all your hard-earned money, you'll send it.
Huh?
And you're waiting for what you sent for to come. But then there comes a letter from them and says, Sorry, we're temporarily out of stock. But they got your money and you're in hock.
That rhymed, didn't it? They got it. Heavenly say Amen.
Brother, I got the faith book. I got the Bible. I got a catalog number.
There's over 5,000 items that God's got. Heavenly say Amen. And I like Philippians 4.19 that says, But my God shall supply all of my needs according to his riches or warehouse in glory.
God's got a big warehouse in glory. And it's stocked. And He's got a bunch of angels that are ready to fulfill your order when you come with what pleases Him.
Faith.
Heavenly say Amen. When you come to the Lord boldly, to the throne of grace, to free gifts, and state what you want, and then turn loose your faith, God tells that angel, go to bin 419, Philippians, get out one, and bring it up here. Heavenly say Amen.
Now they got it speeded up. You don't have to write. They're gonna use that modern thing.
It's been abused. Call the telephone. And you can call in your order.
I don't like to write. I don't know about you. I like to call in orders.
And to expedite it.
Speed it up.
Heavenly say Amen. And you can get on that phone, and they'll say, Seers ready to take your order. Give me the catalog number.
Heavenly say Amen. And you tell them, I want one of, Philippians 419. Amen?
Say, we got your number. I say, how long is it going to take for me to pick it up? Said about a half hour.
I said, you'll see me. Heavenly say Amen. And I get in my little car, and I go to the pickup station.
You know how they got them now, deliveries here. Heavenly say Amen.
Pick up here.
And I go to them. I said, I'm Mr. Hardy. Said, I just called you on the phone.
Said, you came in loud and clear. Said, yeah, you wanted to flip in 419. I said, that's right.
Said, we got it. Heavenly say Amen. Said, we got it.
The boy just come and brought it to us. It's over in that bin. He goes over in the bin, picks out one with Philippians 419 and brings it.
Writes out the receipt, and you reach out your hand again. He said, wait a minute. You got to give me that thing that pleases me.
You got to give me that loot, that money. You could tell him all you want, how much you love it, how much you desire it. But this is cash on the barrel head.
Huh?
Like the Chinese man say, no tiki, no money, no laundry. You don't bring the tiki, you don't have the number, you ain't got no money, you get no laundry.
Amen?
And if you don't come and put the cash on the barrel head, you'll take that 419 and flip it back in the return bin.
Amen?
How many?
I like this part of the message. I played it yesterday to myself when I had a revival. I put in a lot of orders after I read it of God.
How many?
Well, first of all, getting ahead of my time. Well, yeah, I can still use, how many? Get the Sunday paper.
Man, we must have an illiterate church. Well, I'm still going to use my illustration. But Sister Hardy and I don't wait to Sunday.
We get it Saturday, because we want to get a head start on all the ads and the sales. You know, the Sunday papers, when they got it all loaded up, how many say him in? So we search them all out, and they got it in there.
We are running a one-day sale. We got everything on sale. Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday.
I like them ads. They'll come out in the middle of the week, says, this is only good for Wednesday and Thursday. Then they come out Friday, say, this is good for Friday and Saturday.
And then they got one that comes out for Sunday, and if you go into the store, it's the same stuff that they advertise Wednesday.
How many would like to get all your ads together? And they're going to have a special sale on everything you've been secretly desiring that your husband don't know nothing about. How many say amen?
And you go to the store. How many would like to have a store like this? You're there at 9 o'clock opening, so you're there at 6.
You even brought your sleeping bag, portable coffee pot. How many say amen? And the doors are open, and the person says, give me a list of what you want.
And you tell them they ring it up, and he gives you the money for it. How many would like to have that? All you got to do is then take your cart and pick everything you totally want on that list and kick it yourself, because you didn't put 100 things more on it.
Huh?
And you bring it up, and they ring it up, huh? But they're not going to turn it loose till you put the castle on the thing, but they've already gave it to you. How many would like that?
Wouldn't that be wonderful?
Well, God has done that. In the beginning, when you got saved, God knew everything you needed, and He gave you the spiritual money, faith, how many say amen? In the beginning, and all you got to do is come with your Christmas list every day.
Amen?
He's already done it. Say it, I got the thing that pleases God. I got the spiritual money.
It's faith.
There is no restrictions on my asking. If you abide in me, my word abiding you, ask what you will. You don't pray, if it be thy will.
The word of God is His will. You ask what you will, and it shall be done. You come boldly to the throne of grace.
You pull out the spiritual green box, your faith. You tell God what you want. He's got it ordered for you.
He's got it there for you. His angels are ready. God's in business.
And what I like about God is that he don't close. He's open 24 hours a day, every day. 724, 365, and if it's leap year, 366.
And he's never temporarily out of stock. because if you want or need something and he don't have it, he'll create it right then.
You got it. Why don't you tell somebody next to them, you got what pleases God. You're a child of God.
God doesn't give you spiritual money. You can ask what you will. Don't hold back.
You know how, when you go to your husband and roll them big blue eyes, and say, honey, you're the greatest. He already gets his checkbook out. He knows you're after something.
How many say, amen? All you got to do is go to the Lord and tell him how much you love you. You love him.
How many say, amen? He already proves how much he loves you, and he's ready for you to ask. You got to ask.
Ask and you shall receive. Seek and you shall find. Knock and it shall be opened.
And then come and give him what pleases him. That's faith.
Amen?
Don't quote and say, now, God, you said this, and you said the other, and God said, that's right, I said this, and I said that, and I got to do it if you turn loose your spiritual money, if you turn loose the spiritual greenback. I've got it. It's up to you.
Whatever you want. I got it. I'm ready.
I want to give it to you more than you want to receive it. And that's true. God wants to give it to you more than you want to receive it.
because He's saying ask. He's saying seek. He's saying knock.
For everyone to ask us to receive Him, everyone to seek Him, find Him, everyone that knocks, it'll be open.
Praise Him.
Amen, what a dynamic, faith-energizing message by my father, brother Hardy, the Faith Connection. The plight of the woman with the issue of blood is one of the most desperate in the New Testament. She had pursued every specialist, promising her a cure for 12 long, discouraging years, yet with no results.
In fact, she grew worse with each year, and now she was broke. But she heard about Jesus. And Romans 10, 17 says, Faith comes by hearing the Word of God.
She said within herself, If I can just get to Jesus, if I can touch the hem of his garment, I know I will be made whole. And she set out to make the faith connection. It didn't matter about all those years of suffering and despair.
That day, the healer, the one who had the power of God, was passing her way. That day, she reached out to touch Jesus, and she made the faith connection. And the rest is Bible history.
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According to Dr. Robert Lewis, who is the pastor, author and founder of the original Men’s Fraternity, We have lost the ability to pass on to the next generation a vision of manhood that makes sense and is compelling to young men. On today’s edition of Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson and Pastor Lewis discuss the essentials of what it means to be a man, and why the inability of dads to connect with their sons can cause a huge loss of their masculine identity. Discover more as Dr. Lewis defines the different phases of training up boys, and why manhood is best forged under the wings of a dad.
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Welcome everyone to Family Talk. It's a ministry of the James Dobson Family Institute supported by listeners just like you. I'm Dr. James Dobson, and I'm thrilled that you've joined us.
Well, welcome to Family Talk, the broadcast division of the Dr. James Dobson Family Institute. I'm Roger Marsh, and I have a question for you, one that many parents and caregivers alike may wrestle with. And the question is, how do you teach a boy how to become a man?
This aspect of parenting, if left unchecked, can oftentimes lead to not properly guiding our sons into adulthood. On today's edition of Family Talk, we want to provide you with some insight and some answers to this age-old, child-rearing question. Now, the conversation we're about to hear was recorded several years ago, but we hope that you will find that this content is as relevant today as it was back then.
Dr. Dobson will talk about what it means to be an authentic, godly man with his guest, Dr. Robert Lewis. For more than 40 years, Dr. Lewis has been a pastor, writer, and speaker. Currently, he serves as Senior Advisor for Leadership Network.
He's also the founder of the Men's Fraternity, a ministry that provides a year-long Bible study to encourage men to live Christ-like lives. Dr. Lewis earned his Master's degree in Greek and another in Divinity from Western Seminary, and he also holds a Doctorate of Ministry degree from Talbot Theological Seminary. On today's program, Dr. Lewis will join Dr. Dobson for a conversation about his classic book, Raising a Modern Day Knight.
He'll explain why the Medieval Knight is the perfect example for educating boys today about the responsibilities of manhood. Dr. Lewis will also share with us about how his own father did not provide a good example to follow. He'll unpack why boys instinctively search for acceptance and praise from their fathers as well as other male role models.
Dr. Robert Lewis and his wife Sherrod have been married over 50 years. Together they have four grown children and three grandchildren. Okay, let's join Dr. James Dobson and his guest Dr. Robert Lewis right here, right now on Family Talk.
It has been your concern for a long time that most boys and even young adults do not know, maybe most is a too strong a word, many boys and young adults don't know what it means to be a man. That's a central theme of what you're writing about.
That's absolutely the essence of what the book's all about.
Why are we so confused about that?
I think it's because we have lost the ability to pass from one generation to the next a vision of manhood that makes sense and is compelling to young men. I think what a lot of dads do, the best dads, they'll spend time with their son, they'll have experiences with their son, they'll emotionally maybe even connect well with their son, but what they don't impart are some of what I think are the essentials of what it means to be a man in a way that is practical, specific, and compelling.
Well, you can't teach what you don't know. Many fathers aren't real sure what it means to be a man either.
Well, that's exactly.
I don't want to disparage a lot of people here, but the culture is confused about that.
Well, I don't think anyone has, in a sense, authorized the last few generations of dads to think it was their responsibility to do more than just provide for the home. I don't think they sense that they are to impart some kind of masculine vision that has specifics attached to it. They think their sons are just going to catch manhood.
And as I always tell dads, I say manhood is made. It has to be forged, and it's best forged under the wings of a dad.
Well, I wrote in my book that boys are not born knowing how to be a boy, much less a man. And there's a lot of confusion in how that information is transmitted. And a good part of the problem of homosexuality results in an inability to disengage from the mother's role at about 18 months to 5 years, and reattaching to a good man.
And that, you can get lost, there can be a sexual identity crisis in that transfer. If it never occurs, then you move on through childhood not really knowing who you are and what you're supposed to do, especially in this culture.
Well, it sounds a lot like the home I grew up in. I mean, the home I grew up in, my dad being a World War II veteran but emotionally absent from our family and not knowing how to personally connect with the three boys that were running around his feet in those early days, we suffered a huge loss in that, in a huge vacuum, and it confused us all. And different sons went different directions.
One of my brothers went the homosexual route.
He died of AIDS.
Yes, right, because of the disconnect that occurred there that never was filled.
Well, you know, that is precisely what I was talking about. So your brother is a living example of that lack of transfer that occurred because your dad wasn't there. You?
Yeah, he went one route. The other two boys went, we didn't go the same route, but we went different routes trying to fill that vacuum. I mean, I poured my life into athletics.
My brother poured his life into music. But we were all on a quest for something we didn't understand.
You talk in this book about your dad quite a bit and in a very poignant and powerful way. Your dad was an alcoholic. It's okay to say that.
You said it in the book.
Yeah, yeah, it's okay.
Yeah, and that...
It's a reality.
He was not only not a good father, but he had the capacity to be pretty violent.
Well, when I look at my dad now from adult eyes, I think a lot of... I don't think it was my dad didn't want to be a good father. I think most...
What I've learned is most men who are dads want to be a good father, but if they don't know how, they become clumsy, awkward, distant, and sometimes abusive. But I think my dad, he would have wanted to connect. I've never felt like he didn't want to connect.
He just didn't know how, and the frustration of that, plus a lot of other things in his life, led him to a place where alcohol basically consumed his life. The violence that happened in our home was really more of the result of alcohol than being a mean-spirited person.
In your childhood years, do you ever remember him telling you he loved you?
No. Never? Never.
Were you reaching for him?
Oh, yes. I think we would climb into his lap and do things. There were ways he showed affection, but the ability to verbalize affection was just something that was absent from our home.
And that hurt. I mean, I didn't realize it was hurting. I think what young boys do growing up in a home where they have that kind of emotional distance, they learn to compensate for it in different ways.
Sometimes not very healthy, but they learn to compensate. The thing is, in some ways, you cease to feel. You just have to put that aside and then point yourself in a different direction.
It's what I did in athletics.
Well, you were on a quest to find out what it means to be a man.
Right.
You've obviously found it. You're a very masculine man today and you have led a church. And yet, before you turned around, you had children of your own, boys of your, I think two boys, with the responsibility of teaching them what your father didn't teach you.
Right.
Where did you go to get the information?
That's a great question.
See, I haven't written the book yet.
Yeah. Well, I know that when I had our two sons, we had two daughters and two sons, but my two sons were the last born, the real turning point came a night where I was with two of my closest friends in their family and they had five other sons in the midst of their homes. And so here we were at a party with these seven little boys running around.
And one of the wives just simply asked this question. She turned to us and said, How are you going to raise these boys into being men? And the silence that followed was deafening.
Because we looked at each other and I think that's when it first hit me. I really didn't know. Maybe it was just one of those aha moments where I said, I'm going to find out.
And so that began the quest not only to be a good dad, but to discover a masculinity that I could see, understand and communicate.
Well, what you learned is now in this book, Raising a Modern Day Knight. And there is meaning to that title. It's not just an announcement that you're going to be talking about fathers and sons.
But you use as a model a medieval, classical approach to knighthood. Explain what you mean by that.
Well, in this quest to understand how to raise my sons into men, we took a summer in Europe on a mission trip as a family. I want to give my children that kind of experience. And when we were there, we actually lived in Poland for summer and got to explore these castles.
And that's where I got the first idea of this, because number one, knights, just by their very name, are associated with men who lived above the age, the dark ages. And I thought, that's what I want my sons to be like. That we're living in a difficult time, a crude and coarse culture.
I want noble men to be my sons. And so I started just looking at these knights around Poland and these castles, and you begin to see that knighthood was a process. It started with a young lad who trained under a knight and just the rudimentary elements of taking care of a knight as a page, and then he moved to being a kind of a partner with a knight as a squire up till he was about 18.
Then he went through a process of becoming a knight, which was usually in his early 20s, and then he gave his life to a cause that he spent the rest of his life pursuing. And I thought, you know, when I think of a boy, when I thought of my own childhood, I thought, you know, I go through stages that kind of follow those parallels. When you turn 13, as you have so eloquently written about becoming an adolescent in your tape series, I thought 13 is a critical stage, a page stage.
Leaving home at 18, going out on your own is a critical stage, kind of like a squire. Being affirmed by a community of men when you're setting foot into the work world at 21 is kind of like becoming a knight. And then a cause to live for is your work, and the woman that you pledge your life to.
That's kind of the cause of life. And I thought those would be wonderful as benchmarks to point our sons to, and at each moment, each one of those critical transitions, to build masculine truth in and to envision for them what an authentic man would be like.
You know, you mentioned adolescence. Many people don't know the difference between adolescence and puberty. They think they're one and the same.
They're really not. Puberty is that time of sexual awakening. All the hormones are beginning to increase and all of the influences of that early adolescent period.
But adolescence itself refers to, it's actually a cultural term. It refers to the period of time between childhood and adulthood. And in our culture, that period is the longest of probably any culture in history, because if you're going to go through high school and college and maybe graduate school, you're still dependent on your parents in some cases.
You're still not independent. You're still not a man. You're a student.
You haven't quite gotten there. So that adolescence can be protracted. But puberty is, you know, it occurs in just a period of months.
I'm told that there are African tribes which have no adolescence. A young man reaches 13, 14 years of age, and he is sent out into the wilderness at night to fight lions or snakes or whatever is out there. Even if they're mythical, he's out there alone for the night.
And then he comes back the next morning, if he survived, and he is a man. He goes from childhood to manhood in one night. He fights in the wars.
He is treated like a man. He has the respect of a man. He can marry like a man.
And we just have it a little different in Western cultures. But you are attempting to shepherd a young man through childhood and adolescence and young adulthood, if possible. And according to a plan, so it's not haphazard.
That's right. And it doesn't get extended where what you have is a 30-year-old boy. What you have is a son who, as he grows up, has road marks and markers and a community of men cheering for him to begin to make what I call responsible changes and to see a responsible and noble quest for his life that he can begin to orient his life to as he moves through these stages.
So like, for instance, at 13, for my sons, I went through your Preparing for Adolescent tape series. Did you really? Yeah, that was one of the things we did at six weeks before their 13th birthday.
We would meet in the morning. We would have a discussion. Sometimes it would extend to the evening.
But on his 13th birthday, we had a ceremony, and at that ceremony, he was presented with this vision of manhood, this definition of manhood that's summarized in the book. And I told him at his party that night, at that ceremony, that he was to memorize this definition, because from this point on, as a 13-year-old and beyond, I would call him to this definition to account, and that he could call me to account for that same definition, so that together, we could share a new manhood language of vision that we were both still on the quest for and would remain on the quest for for the rest of our lives.
And after that point, you dealt with him, not as a child.
That's right.
But as a young man.
That's exactly right. Ceremonies are significant because they become milestone markers, and they show that at each point, that more is expected. I did a wedding just the other night, and one of the things you do is you have this elaborate ceremony for a man and a woman, because they know they're going through a significant life change, and at the end of that ceremony, they'll walk out with symbols on their fingers and new responsibilities in their life.
At each one of these ceremonial occasions, that's exactly how the son leaves. He leaves with some symbol of that moment and new responsibilities, that he's being challenged, not just by me as his dad, but always incorporate a community of men to show that it's not dad's opinion, that this, with the men that he admires in his life, that this is a noble quest worth giving his life to, because not just dad, but other men are speaking the same language. So, the key marker is at 13, because of the changes that you said occur in his life, his body.
He starts seeing life differently. At 18, we do another major ceremony, mainly because each of our sons were leaving home to go to college. They were going to now have to make new decisions alone for themselves.
Their manhood would not be supported by the family anymore. It had to be supported by an internal vision. At 21 or 22, at that point, there was another ceremony, and that's where he was invited into the community of men, into this group of men that join with me in the book to raise our seven sons together.
It's amazing that you came up with this understanding, not having seen it modeled, and yet I know the answer to why, because you say in the book you had a coach who modeled it for you.
That's right.
I did too. Did you? Of course, my dad was a wonderful father and a great role model, but I also had a coach that had a major impact on me.
Well, I had, as any son who feels that disconnect, every son has father hunger, and I've met men as old as 70 who still have this incredible father hunger. They would just love for their dad to still say, I love you or I'm proud of you. And it just so happened that this coach, his name was Hoss Garrett, took note of me as I was coming up as a sophomore, junior, and senior in high school.
And it was the little...
What did you play?
I played middle linebacker. And there were just little...
Only sissies play that position, right?
That's right. We call it the headhunter position. And I loved it.
But I had a lot of anger to express in those days. And somehow that actually helped me in some ways being an athlete. But on the positive side, this coach just in the way took note of me and would affirm me in little ways.
I could feel my soul connecting to his. And I think he knew that. And he knew how to speak into my life at important moments.
And it was so impactful on my life that when my first born son was born, the first thing I want to do was name him after my coach.
Really? You know, I talk in my book about the single mother. And she worries often about the fact that there isn't a husband there, a father to model these principles for her son.
And I've strongly recommended just what you found, which is a substitute male figure, an uncle, a grandfather, a neighbor, a coach.
That's exactly right.
Somebody who can say, this is what a man does, and this is how a man thinks.
Yeah, a young boy growing up with a single mom needs to connect with a masculine hero. And when a mom comes to me, sometimes they've picked up modern-day night and they say, what can I do? And the first thing I tell them is, you cannot make your boy a man.
Only men make boys men. So your most strategic move is to stay a mom and connect this young son to a masculine hero. Somewhere, a coach, a Sunday school teacher, a boys club member, whatever.
But if you do that, it has an unbelievable effect on his life because it gives him a way to get that masculine food that his soul so desperately hungers for.
As a pastor, did you ever stand in the pulpit and say, there are single mothers here who have sons. To the other men who are here, I beg you to work in their lives. Include those boys with your sons.
Take them to football games or any other sporting event. Take them fishing. Take them hunting.
Be with them. Include them with your family. Because that's a God-given responsibility.
It's huge and it has a huge impact. In fact, not only did that, we had a number of men who formed different mentoring groups. I think of one who actually took, he was a well-known hunter and fisherman, and he actually got all the sports clubs of Arkansas to give a free day where dads could bring not only their sons, but a mail from a single parent home to spend a weekend hunting or fishing on these very nice hunting and fishing clubs.
But while they did it to allow this young boy the opportunity to drive a four-wheeler and know how to hook a fish and to feel that masculine spirit out in the wild to connect with him so that he would have somebody to look to.
Well that's what my dad did for me. I've said many times that my dad would take me hunting. We'd get up at 4.30 in the morning and we would drive out to the place I call the big woods because the trees looked so big to me.
We were hunting squirrel and quail and other things at that time. And he was different out there. He was mine.
He was with me. He related to me like a man out there. He was busy and into other things at other times.
My father was an evangelist. He was gone a lot. When he came home, he had time to be a father to me.
What a priceless gift. It's incredible. That's why I love we started a father-son camp where dads could come with their sons and also bring single mom-sons and mentor them.
But it's just a week of experiences like that because you get out in those wilds and it becomes a whole different... It does. And even just a week of focused attention between a dad and a son or a man and a young protégé is life-changing especially when they have masculine experiences together.
Are you still friends with your sons today?
I am. And three of them are in full-time ministry. All of them are vibrant young men who are healthy and making a difference in their community.
That's my definition of success.
That's right.
You accomplish that.
It's the ultimate success.
The ultimate. The title of the book is Raising a Modern Day Night by Dr. Robert Lewis. The subtitle is A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood.
This book has very practical ideas in it. And so many, in fact, that I would like to talk some more about it next time.
Thank you very much.
Well, it is no secret that boys certainly need God-led male role models to show them how to become men. And today here on Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson was joined by Dr. Robert Lewis for a conversation about raising men of honor. Now, this is part one of a two-part conversation based on principles in Dr. Lewis's classic book called Raising a Modern Day Night.
And if you'd like to learn more about Dr. Lewis, his ministry or that book, visit our website at drjamesdobson.org/familytalk. That's drjamesdobson.org/familytalk.
Of course, the essence of biblical masculinity is to care for and protect the family. And here at the Dr. James Dobson Family Institute, based on a recent conversation with Riley Gaines, the all-American swimmer who has become the singular voice of reason in the culture for standing up for women in women's athletics against the radical transgender agenda, we have drafted a declaration to protect children that you can read and sign. It's written by Dr. James Dobson, Gary Bauer, our Senior Vice President of Public Policy here at the Dobson Policy Center, Dr. Owen Strand, Senior Director of the Dobson Culture Center and Joe Warsack, the President of the James Dobson Family Institute.
We as people united in our trust in Jesus Christ uphold the fundamental conviction that we are bound as parents and adults to love and protect our children. And you can show that love and protection for your kids by signing the Declaration to Protect Children. You can read it and sign it when you go to drjamesdobson.org/protect the children.
That's drjamesdobson.org/protect-the-children.
Now I mentioned Riley Gaines is one of the voices crying out in the wilderness for biblical values against the evils of this world. Well, as we approach Decision Day 2024, which is November 5th, Election Day, it's no secret that as Christians, one of the most important things we can do to witness our faith in Christ in the public square is to vote. That's why here at the Dr. James Dobson Family Institute, we've done the heavy lifting for you.
We've researched the most important issues that Christians and Americans are facing today, especially in the swing states. And we've put together fact-based voter guides for each of those 10 key areas of our country. You can compare the candidates based on the God-given long-standing values that have made America a beacon of liberty.
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I'm Roger Marsh, and you've been listening to Family Talk, the voice you trust for the family you love. Be sure to join us again next time for part two of Dr. Dobson's conversation with Dr. Robert Lewis talking about raising men of honor. That's right here on Family Talk.
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Sermon Overview
Scripture Reference: Philippians 4:4-8
Even the strongest Christian can struggle with mental health. Many of us find ourselves shackled by the chains of disappointment, depression, anger, and fear. While in prison, weighed down by real chains, the Apostle Paul wrote about the freedom we can have in Christ. In Philippians 4, he reveals five steps to mental health.
Rejoice in the presence of the Lord.
“Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice! Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand” (Philippians 4:4-5). Paul knew he was not alone in his prison cell; the Lord was with him. No matter our circumstance, the joy we have in the Lord is continuous, because Jesus is constant.
Adrian Rogers says, “No matter where we are, how lonely the night, how dark the road, how dismal the prison, how big the problem, Jesus Christ is always there.”
Rely on the protection of God.
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication…” (Philippians 4:6a).
Whatever problem we may face, we can talk to God about it. Worry hurts us so badly, because by definition, it is the idea of being pulled apart; it is useless, wasteful, and wicked. Rather, we can trust God in the big things and the little things.
Reflect on the provision of God.
“...with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God” (Philippians 4:6b). Rather than praying with self-pity, we should be filled with thanksgiving, praying with gratitude for all the Lord has done, and all He will do.
Rest In the peace of the Lord.
“...and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:7). The peace of God is what guards us and protects us. We don’t keep this peace—it keeps us.
Reflect on the purpose of God.
“Finally…whatever things are true… noble… just… pure… lovely… of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things” (Philippians 4:8).
We can be selective about what comes into our hearts and minds. We must keep our thoughts on the right things, so that we don’t miss the purposes of God.
Apply it to your life
Consider these five steps to mental health today. Pray that you would remember the Lord is near, to rejoice in Him and not in our circumstances. He is our protection, our provision, our peace, and our purpose.
If God is prompting change in you, He won't go away or change His mind. Today, Joyce teaches how to start responding to God's calls for self-improvement.
This program is made possible by the partners of Joyce Meyer Ministries.
I'm Joyce Meyer and I believe that God can heal you everywhere you hurt.
We're actually going to use the S word today, sacrifice.
We act like it's almost a dirty word these days. Everybody always wants to know what they can get, not what they can give. To be self-centered means to be concerned solely or chiefly with one's own interests, welfare.
To be engrossed in yourself, to be selfish, egotistical, independent, self-sufficient, and centered in yourself. Now, let me repeat what I said on Thursday night. When we talk about not being selfish, we don't mean that you're to never do anything for yourself.
You need to do things for yourself. You won't be a healthy you if you don't. It's good to do things you enjoy.
It's good to get some things for yourself that you really like. You work hard. You need to take care of yourself.
It's good to laugh. It's good to rest. It's good to play.
Please take care of yourself. Invest in yourself. Invest in your health.
But don't be totally absorbed with yourself, selfish and self-centered. So like I said, we always want to find the balance. Now we need to live a life where we're not trying to please ourselves, but we're trying to please God.
Let's look at Colossians chapter 1 verse 10.
Maybe I should just ask if anybody here ever has a problem with being selfish.
About two dozen people. Well, I guess the rest of you are going to be kind of bored today then.
That you may walk, live, and conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to Him and desiring to please Him in all things. Now, there's nothing wrong with asking God to give you something you want. But if what you want or what I want is not what God wants, then we need to immediately let go of our plan and take hold of His.
Even if it's uncomfortable, even if it hurts, even if it means sacrifice, it's a momentary sacrifice that will lead to much greater joy. Is there anyone here that God's really been dealing with you about letting go of something that means a lot to you, but you know God's telling you to let go of it, and you just haven't gotten around to doing it yet? Okay, well, then guess what?
This is for you today. Can I just say that God won't change His mind? It's always nice for us to realize that He won't change His mind.
No matter how long you put it off, it'll be the same. Bearing fruit in every good work, and steadily growing and increasing in and by the knowledge of God, with fuller, deeper, and clearer insight, acquaintance, and recognition. Fully pleasing to Him, and desiring to please Him in all things.
Now, I want to read you a little short story called How to Be Miserable. Just in case anybody's, you know, wanting that, I can tell you how to get it. Think about yourself constantly.
Use I as often as possible. Mirror yourself continually by the opinion of other people. Listen greedily to what people say about you, and if it's not what you want to hear, get angry.
Expect to be appreciated by everyone. Be suspicious. Be jealous and envious.
Be sensitive and easily offended. Never forgive a criticism. Trust nobody but yourself.
Insist on consideration and respect at all times. Demand agreement with your own views on everything. Sulk and feel sorry for yourself if people are not grateful to you or for what you do for them.
Never forget how much you've done for other people. Think about it at all times. But always remember what they have failed to do for you.
Shirk your duty. Seek at all times to entertain yourself and do as little as you possibly can for other people. Now, the thing that occurred to me while I was reading this, right in the middle of reading it, is this is exactly the way I used to be.
I mean, there's probably not one of these things that I wouldn't have been guilty of when I started my journey with God 38 years ago. And I'm just here to tell you today that this is a very important issue. Jesus died so that we might no longer have to live to and for ourselves, but to and for him.
He died to forgive our sins. He died so we could go to heaven. He died so we could have a relationship with God.
But he died so we would no longer have to live to and for ourselves. The greatest thing that God has set me free from is me.
It is quite wonderful to not have to get up every day and do nothing but think about myself all day long. Self-centered people are self-deceived people. They think the more they do for themselves and the more everybody else does for them, the happier they will be.
But the exact opposite is true. Luke 9, 23 through 25. And he said, if any person wills to come after me, let him deny himself, disown himself, forget, lose sight of himself and his own interests, refuse and give up himself.
The simplicity of this is he's saying, if you really want to follow me, then you got to get yourself off your mind and take up your cross daily and follow me. The cross that Christ asked us to carry is not disasters and disease and every kind of misery that you can come up with. You know, sometimes when people are having trouble, they say, well, you know, it's just my cross to bear.
Well, that's really not the cross that Jesus asked us to bear. Yes, we may have to go through things, but he came to give us victory over those things. Of course, the cross he's asking us to carry is to make a decision to live unselfishly in a world where people need to see Jesus.
And Jesus is love, God is love. It's not just something he does, it's who he is. He pours his love into us so we can receive it, be healed, and then let that love pour out of us to other people.
God works through people.
Joyce, thanks for sitting down with us for a candid conversation today.
I'm glad I'm sitting down.
We want to talk about a hard one today, and that is forgiveness. Now, you've taught on forgiveness a lot, we've learned so much about it, but I think of friends and different situations who have just been hurt so badly, have lost a child to an unnecessarily tragic accident, or what you went through, of course, talking so much about your father. And when there's that type of scar tissue on your heart from a wound like that, sometimes even that first thought of forgiveness is almost like, no, you know, I can't even go there.
It's like it's not even reasonable to ask me to do that.
Right. How can God even want that for me? And yet we know that that is such an important step of healing.
So we have a lot of people who are asking. Yeah, you said that, how do I even begin?
That a lot of people had questions about this.
Exactly. When people, when we ask people if they could sit down with you and have a chat, this was one of the main topics that came up. They would like to talk to you about how can they forgive?
I recommend that people look up all the scriptures in the Bible about it because the word of God has power in it. And when you, when you look at the scriptures, I still, like if I'm having an issue with something, let's just say that I'm, for some reason I get jealous of somebody. You know, I won't just think, oh, I shouldn't be jealous, I shouldn't be jealous.
If I'm not getting rid of it, I'll look up scriptures because there's power in the word. That's why it's important for people to go to the word and to study the word on a regular basis.
I love that because it's deeper than this is where you find answers.
Right.
You'll find the answers but in that there's power to help you actually do it.
Yeah, the Bible says that the word of God is quick and powerful and alive. And the Amplified Bible says it's operative. And I always say the word will operate on you.
God will, you know, use it to cut things out of you that don't belong into at the same time heal you of old wounds and things that need to be healed in your life. And so, I don't think a person can forgive unless they really, really want to do what God wants them to do.
And now what you said there is different than wanting to forgive.
Right.
They have to want what God wants them to do.
Right. Because you may, you know, you may not want to forgive, but you want to please God. You want to do what He asks you to do.
You want to be obedient to Him. And so, if He says, He wants you to forgive, then that's the end of it. One way or the other, with God's help, I'm going to learn how to do it because I've already set myself to be obedient to God.
And when you forgive somebody that's treated you unjustly, I don't know that it's ever going to be fair in the way we look at fair. But if you want to go there, I mean, what Jesus did for us certainly wasn't fair.
That's a really good point.
To Him. And so, if people will think about that, that will help them. John 10, 10 says, the thief comes only to steal, kill and destroy.
But Jesus said, I came. And just those two words, I came. It amazes me that He came down here.
I mean, there's no, there's no real correlation we can make that even makes any sense. It would be like me giving my life for an aunt. You know, it's like, He's, He didn't have to do this.
I mean, in the Garden of Gethsemane, He said, Father, if you can remove this cup from me, nevertheless, your will be done and not mine. And actually, He didn't just take our sin, He became sin. He that knew no sin became sin, that we might be made the righteousness of God in Christ.
So what was it like for this holy one to actually become sin? I heard someone say a few days ago, that He absorbed our sin, and I thought that's a great way to put it. So in the Old Testament, sin could be covered by sacrifices, but under the New Covenant, it's completely removed, and the Bible says that God moves it as far as the east is from the west, remembers it no more, He never mentions it to you, or brings it up.
So first thing that helps me is to really think. You know, sometimes people need to take the time to just sit and do some contemplative thinking, to just think about, okay, God is not asking me to do something that He hasn't done. You know, He forgives me.
So is what that person did to me any worse than what I do to God? You know, so...
Now, let me just be kind of the other side of this and say, well, I've never done some of these things. You know, I've never killed anyone or physically abused anyone. So some people would say, yes, there is a difference between what I've done.
And yet God is taking all of that sin. Yeah, you know, God took the weight of the entire world, past, present and future sin. Right.
And you think about what that would feel like. You know, there's no way for us to understand that. But to take that step that you're saying of how vast that is and how there is no fairness in any of that.
So the fact that it applies to me at all, whatever I've done, is overwhelming. Exactly.
There's not big, little, small, large. Now, there are sins that will have greater repercussions, you know, than other sins. But sin is still sin.
And the Bible talks about that we sin in thought, word and deed. So, like for example, those thought sins. Yeah.
In Matthew, when Jesus was teaching the Sermon on the Mount, he said, you know, that if the Old Testament says, if you commit adultery, but he said, I say, if you think about it, that is no different to doing it. So is there any human on the earth that can say they've never sinned in thought? No.
Jealousy is a sin. Lying is a sin. You know, so sin is just sin.
And there's, we all sin. All have sinned and come short of the glory of God. Therefore, all are justified and made right through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ.
So we've all sinned and we can all be forgiven. And so therefore, I have to first look at that. I have to want to obey God.
And then I look at that. I look at the Word. And then I make a decision that even though it's not fair, and even though it may seem unreasonable, that God's not asking me to do anything that He has not done himself.
And forgiveness doesn't always mean reconciliation of the relationship. I think a lot of people think, well, if I forgive, then I have to take that person back into my life. God's not asking you to bring somebody back into your life that was abusive to you, or that's just going to continue to talk down to you, or, you know, verbally abuse you on a regular basis.
That's not what He's asking you to do. But He's asking you to maybe understand that hurting people hurt people. That was very helpful to me with my dad, because he wasn't raised properly either.
And there was incest in his family bloodline. And so, I don't know what all he saw or what all he experienced. And it's not my job to know.
It's not my place to know. I'm not...
That's a big statement there.
Yeah, we're not God, you know. And God is asking me to forgive, and I don't really need to even know why. That's the way He wants it done.
But I don't want people to go to hell. I didn't want my dad to go to hell. I wanted him to be forgiven.
And through loving him, learning how to love somebody who really didn't deserve love, he did eventually see the goodness of God and receive Christ and is in heaven now. And that's much better than hating him my whole life and, you know, actually lowering myself to the same position that he was in. And not only that, if people could just get this, when you forgive, you're not really doing the other person a favor.
That's the thing people have to understand. It's like, well, they don't deserve that, and I'm not going to do that for them. And that's not right.
You're not doing it for them anyway. You're actually doing it for yourself. When God tells you to forgive, he's telling you something that's going to help you, because there's nothing worse than carrying that bitterness and resentment and hatred around on the inside of you day after day and year after year, when you can let go of that and put the person in God's hands and pray for them, that they will come to know Christ as their Savior and be blessed.
I think another thing that really helps in the area of forgiveness is to stop talking to other people about what so-and-so did to you. Because the more we talk about it, it's like picking a scab off of a wound and we just keep making... I mean, if you have a wound and you get a scab and you pick it off, you're actually just going to make the scar bigger and bigger and bigger.
And so, the thing to do is to forgive as quickly as you possibly can. Because the quicker you do it, the easier it's going to be to do it. And then I also believe that if you pray for people that have hurt you, it is very difficult to pray for somebody and hate them at the same time.
Now, I know it's not easy. But, when we get around to, but it's so hard, we're talking about our feelings, not our decisions. And you can forgive people and be around them and not feel any different.
You know, my mother asked me one time, how did I feel about her? Because she knew my dad was sexually abusing me and she didn't do anything about it. And I was honest with her.
I said, you know, I don't, I can't love you like I would love a mother who protected me and took care of me. But I said, you are God's child. And he sent Jesus to die for you.
And I love you because I love him. And I will always make sure that you're taken care of because I feel that's what God would have me do. So I never had any, I can't really say that, I mean, I went to the nursing home at least every other week to see my mom.
I paid the bills there for many years, made sure she had clothes, made sure she went to the doctor. I made sure she was taken care of. And I did that because of my love for God, not because of a gooey feeling I had about her.
And I can't really say that there was ever a time when I went to visit that I was like, oh boy, today I get to go visit my mom because she never really was my mom. I didn't have bad feelings toward her, but I didn't have loving feelings toward her either. So people, I think get mixed up maybe about how they're supposed to feel if they forgive somebody.
And it's...
And almost like how will I live without this anger and hatred? Because those feelings are so strong.
Right, and it's just not fair. And you know, when are they going to get theirs? And there's no telling how many people a day, Ginger, that are watching us that are angry at people for minor offenses.
Today, people get offended so easy and they're so touchy. And then there's horrible things that have happened to people that they've managed to work through and forgive. People far and it's really a matter of desire.
I mean, if you really want to do what God wants you to do, you will find a way to do it. Yeah.
And like you were saying, the difference that it makes in your life is so much greater than anything you can imagine. The reasoning behind, there's not only how to make it happen that God walks us through it and makes it possible, but the reason that he asks us to do something so hard is out of his great love for us, knowing what is best for us even in the most terrible situations.
We have to be careful about our thinking. I could think, well, that's not right. My dad's in heaven and he was mean all of his life and he made, I mean, he ruined so many lives, so many lives that, I mean, my brother ended up taking his own life.
And that was partially because of the way my dad raised him. And my mother's life was destroyed. Part of that was her own fault because she wouldn't get away from him.
But he just, he did so many bad things. And yet, he's in heaven. Same place that I'll go after preaching for 45 or 50 years.
But I'm not God. It's really none of my business. You know, there's a story in the Bible about laborers that were hired.
Some early in the morning and they worked all day. Some were hired at the 11th hour and they only worked one hour. And they got the same pay as the one who worked all day.
And they thought that was unfair. And the master said, Am I not able? Can I not be good to who I want to be good to?
And so God is good and it's his business, if that's what he wants to do. I think sometimes we have a few too many questions that we don't need to be asking and we need to realize how powerful God is and have a little bit more of that reverential fear and awe and just be glad that he is good, and that he forgives us for our sins.
Well, I think there's such a foundation in you sharing this story because you've lived it from both sides. So I do really appreciate having this conversation with you because you're a person who understands how hard it is and the incredible difference that it makes.
And you know Ginger, every once in a while, I'll think about something my dad did to me. And you know how our mind likes to drift off. And I'll just think, how much I hated him.
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Good afternoon and welcome to The Narrow Path Radio Broadcast. My name is Steve Gregg, and we're live for an hour each weekday afternoon so that we can have a conversation with you two ways. You can call in if you have questions about the Bible or the Christian faith, or you maybe have a disagreement with the host, you want to talk about that, feel free to give me a call.
We have an hour without any commercial breaks to just talk to you and have you talk to me and to our audience. The number to call, if you d like to be on the program, is 844-484-5737.
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If you call and get a busy signal, just call a little later in the program and a line will probably open up. I have an announcement to make, as you may know, if you're a regular listener, I'm speaking a variety of places this weekend, next week, 11 different evening ventures I'm speaking on different subjects. I don't think I'm speaking on the same thing twice anywhere.
And I'm also teaching in the mornings for Youth with a Mission for these two weeks and doing the radio show. So I'm keeping pretty busy. And if you are in Washington state, and would like to attend any of these meetings, you may look at our website, thenarrowpath.com under announcements, and you'll find there the locations and subject matter and so forth of all the meetings this weekend, next week in Washington state.
Now, where I'm going to be tonight is in Linwood, Washington. I'll be speaking at the Maple Park Church from 7 o'clock to about 830. And I'll be teaching on the subject of discipleship, and that will be followed by a time of Q&A.
So if you live anywhere near Linfield, Washington, and want to join us, you can go to the Maple Park Church. The address is found at our website, thenarrowpath.com. Or you can probably find the address for the Maple Park Church in Linwood elsewhere on the Internet, or maybe you even know where it is if you're local.
All right, so that's tonight at 7, and something else every other night. So just want you to know about that before we go to the phone. Our phone lines are full.
So we'll talk first of all to John from East Meadow, New York. John, welcome to The Narrow Path. Thanks for joining us.
Hey Steve, hi. Yeah, I have kind of like a two-part question. When Jesus resurrected, is it true that he only appeared to those at the Quorum Church and as disciples?
And did, whether that's the case or not, did the Pharisees and others eventually go to the tomb and realize that Jesus had resurrected? Did the townspeople understand that eventually?
Right. Well, the Bible indicates that Jesus appeared to quite a lot of people. We don't know all their names, but the impression is that these were people who had been his disciples, with one exception, and that was Jesus' brother James.
James was not a believer before Jesus rose from the dead, but he later became an important person in the church, and apparently God had a plan for him. So in spite of the fact that James, the brother of Jesus, was not a believer, at the time Jesus appeared to him, and that apparently caused him and the other brothers of Jesus to become believers as well, including Jude. So apart from James, I don't know of any other unbelievers that were appeared to him.
Now Paul does say in 1 Corinthians 15, that there was one point where 500 people saw him at one time. He doesn't say where that was, when that was, or who it was. But my impression is that probably happened in Galilee where Jesus had a lot of followers, and he probably was meeting with a gathering of his believers.
So no, he didn't appear to the Pharisees, or he didn't appear to, you know, anyone else, except, of course, Saul of Tarsus on the way to Damascus. That was later. Now, did the Pharisees go and check the empty tomb to see if he was risen?
They probably did. I'm sure at least some of them did. They must have at least sent some agents there to check it out because when the apostles began to teach that Jesus was risen from the dead, that was an annoying and troublesome teaching to the leaders of the Jews.
And so they would gladly have wanted to debunk that, which would be an easy thing to do if they could just go to the tomb and find the body of Jesus. So I'm sure that that was one of the first things they did. You know, when they heard that Jesus rose from the dead, in all likelihood, someone was sent from them to go and check and make sure that the tomb didn't have the body in it.
Because if it did, that would be very advantageous to them in wanting to debunk the teaching of the disciples. So we have to assume that, you know, they did check the tomb. Now, there is a record in Matthew that the guards at the tomb went and reported what had happened to the chief priests.
And the chief priests paid them off to claim that they had fallen asleep and that the disciples had stolen the body. And Matthew says, and that is the rumor that continues among the Jews to this day, meaning by the time Matthew wrote this, that rumor is still around among the Jews. So they apparently, even if they found the body not there, they didn't give up the faith and become Christians, they instead they made up a story that the disciples had stolen the body.
Which was not a very realistic story, because we have no reason to believe the disciples had an interest in stealing the body. The disciples had become despondent. They weren't interested in starting a religion.
They wanted to go back to fishing. And if they did want to steal the body, which would be a strange thing to want to do, how could they pull it off when there were guards at the tomb and so forth? So I think the story that the disciples stole the body never did really ring true, but it worked for people who wanted to remain doubters, I would say.
Okay.
Thank you very much, Steve.
Have a good night. All right. All right.
God bless you. Okay. Our next caller is Eddie from Dearborn, Michigan.
Hi, Eddie. Welcome.
Hey, Steve. How are you? I hope you're doing well.
Okay. So Steve, I don't want to speak for a long time, so I'm going to ask you my question and then get off the phone. And I want to share your audience a lot of maybe grief.
I recently went through a lot of hardship and turmoil, a lot of suffering. I've heard you say that just like David in the Old Testament, how he counted the numbers, just like how God was angry with Pharaoh, that the Lord was already angry with them to begin with. Hence, this is the reason why he blinded their eyes.
And I've also heard you say that the Lord has glory, will receive glory by our suffering. I'm suffering a lot, Steve. Is the Lord receiving glory by this?
Because it's at my expense. And at my expense, I am down and out all day. I just don't know how to continue on with life.
Right. So you read in the Bible that when we suffer, God can be glorified in it. And you're suffering.
And so you wonder if God is being glorified. Well, God is not automatically glorified in our suffering. But our suffering is an opportunity to glorify God.
And what that means is if we respond to our sufferings, trusting God, He gives us grace in those sufferings. And therefore, we are strengthened in those sufferings. And God is glorified in that.
Because everybody experiences sufferings. You don't have to be a Christian to experience sufferings. The world is full of sufferings.
And most people are just Christians. It just makes the Lord look like a sadist.
I'm sorry to interrupt. It just makes him look like a sadist to others that maybe are hearing it. And was he already mad at me before?
Wait, wait, wait.
Why would it make God look like a sadist? Why would it make God look like a sadist? What caused your problems?
How is your suffering? Is your suffering caused by sickness?
I know that it caused me. Yes, me.
Yes.
OK, then how does that make God look bad if you're causing your own sufferings?
It leads to him going through and approving the decision of Satan to attack me, perhaps, just like he did with Job.
Well, God allows the devil to test everybody, not just you. Everyone's tests are a different kind, but God is not a sadist by testing us. Just like a professor in a university is not a sadist when he gives exams to his students.
The idea is hoping they will pass them. They might not. They should.
But he hopes they will pass them. And so God gives us that opportunity to glorify him in sufferings and to learn and to gain from it. And Paul said that our light affliction, which is but for a moment, works for us a far more exceeding an eternal weight of glory.
While we don't look at the things that are seen, but the things are not seen. So in our sufferings, we set our eyes not on the things that are seen, but on the things that are not seen, which is of course God and his purposes and his grace. Those things that are not seen are the things that cause our present sufferings to work for us an eternal weight of glory.
Now, we would suffer whether God had any role in it or not. I mean, we bring suffering on ourselves. God didn't bring suffering into the world, man did.
And the question is whether God allows us to suffer. You notice whether he lets influences that would cause suffering or not, whether he lets them come or doesn't let them come. Well, he's under no obligation to stop them.
Where's my way out? He's supposed to give me a way out. I'm supposed to be his.
Where's my way out? How much longer do I have to suffer?
Well, of course, I can't answer how long you have to suffer or what your way out is. Your way out is into the arms of Christ. That doesn't mean you're not going to suffer.
You might suffer every day of your life. There's many people who do. The Apostle Paul certainly did.
He was beaten, he was imprisoned, he was shipwrecked, he had stripes innumerable from beatings and so forth. And he suffered a lot. And I don't think he ever got out of his sufferings until he was beheaded and went to be with Jesus.
So when Paul wrote Philippians, he was in a third world jail, pretty miserable. And he said, hey, I'm eager to depart from here and be with Christ. Yeah, that's kind of you kind of feel that even more when you're suffering than when you're not.
So our escape from suffering is not in this world necessarily, though God sometimes in this life does give us periods of relief. But none is guaranteed. This world is not a place of enjoyment.
It's a place of testing. It's a place of preparing. It's where we're being vetted to reign with Christ in another world at another time.
So when do you get out of it? I'd say when you die. Now, the sufferings you're going through right now, I don't know what they are, but they may be temporary.
They may go away at some point. You may be delivered from them or not. I have friends who are in chronic pain.
They're in excruciating pain all the time, day and night, for years. And I'm sure they're thinking, you know, when can I get out of this? And you know, we don't know.
When God wants you to get out of this, when you know. The thing is, it's hard to be, you know, not thinking about yourself when you're in great pain. Obviously, when you're in great pain, it's hard not to think about relief.
But that's true whether you're a Christian or not. The Christian's life is supposed to be different than a non-Christian because we have God. We trust God.
We believe that nothing is going to happen to us. That can destroy us if we're trusting him. And that nothing that he allows to happen to us will harm us in any way that he can't make some good come from it, that makes it worthwhile.
And so again, I don't have any idea of what form of suffering you're going through. But obviously, I also can't predict when whatever suffering you're going through may be relieved, if at all. But we're told to be strong and of good courage and to fight like a man.
And what we're fighting against is the temptation to cave in, the temptation to lose faith, the temptation to compromise because we're disappointed with God, because he's letting us go through stuff and not removing it from us. The Apostle Paul had a thorn in the flesh, which apparently agonized him all the time. It was excruciating and apparently for years.
And he prayed three times that Christ would take it away. And Jesus said, No, my grace is sufficient for you. My strength is made perfect in your suffering.
Now, that would be true of you or anybody who's a believer in Christ, that God gives grace as needed, as we trust him. Now, will we trust him? That's kind of up to us.
And so how you'll come out is whether God will be glorified in this suffering of yours, or whether it'll be wasted suffering and nothing comes of it. That's kind of up to you to decide if you can trust God, you're going to glorify God in the fire. That's up to you.
That's what every Christian has to decide to do. But the Bible does talk about people suffering in vain. Paul said to the Galatians who are about to fall from the faith because they're suffering.
He said, have I endured these things for nothing, in vain? In the prophets, God says, I struck you in vain. You didn't change.
So the issue here is, it's not on God to decide if he's going to be glorified in this. That's on you. You can suffer and not bring glory to God, in which case you suffered for nothing.
But if you suffer and bring glory to God, that's got eternal consequences of value to you and to God and to others. So I just suggest that you listen to my lectures, Making Sense Out of Suffering. If you have listened to them, I'd say listen to them again.
Making Sense Out of Suffering is four lectures at our website, thenarrowpath.com under the tab that says Topical Lectures. Okay, we'll talk to Terrence from Little Rock, Arkansas. Terrence, welcome to The Narrow Path.
Thanks for calling.
Revelation chapter 20 verse 5, But the rest of the dead live not again until the thousand years were finished. Who are the rest of the dead in Revelation chapter 20 verse 5?
Who are the rest of the dead who don't live again until after a thousand years are finished? The answer to that question depends on how you understand what that thousand years is and when it is. If it is talking about a future millennium, as many people believe, that begins when Jesus returns, then the rest of the dead are those who are not part of the first resurrection as it says.
It says he saw the first resurrection. He saw the souls of the saints who were beheaded for Christ, sitting on thrones and reigning with Christ, but the rest of the dead didn't live again until the end of the thousand years. So the way a pre-millennial view holds this is that Jesus comes back at the beginning of the thousand years.
He sets up a thousand year reign on earth, and he has resurrected only the saints, only the believers, and they are reigning with him for a thousand years. But the unbelievers don't get raised from the dead until at the end of the millennium. And you find, of course, at the end of that chapter, the sea gives up the dead, and death and Hades give up the dead, and they're all judged from the things written in the books and so forth.
So if a person takes the thousand years to be a future millennium, the rest of the dead are the people who've died throughout history, who will not be resurrected until the end of that time. But that is in contrast to the ones who have at that time been resurrected, who would be the Christians resurrected at the time Jesus returned. And therefore, the Christians would be reigning with Christ for the thousand years, and the other people who were not Christians would not be raised at all until afterwards.
Now, I'm not a pre-millennialist. I believe that the thousand years is a symbol of the period between the first coming and the second coming of Christ. So the age we're living in, it's symbolizes.
And Jesus bound Satan at his first coming at the cross, and he'll destroy him, as it says in Chapter 20, Verse 9, in flaming fire when he comes back in his second coming. In the meantime, John saw in a vision people in heaven who had died who were Christians, and we know it was dead people because he saw their souls. He said, I saw the souls of those who had been martyred.
Well, their souls would be in their bodies if they weren't dead. He saw their disembodied souls, and that's where they go when they die. So he sees where the martyrs have gone, who have died during this age, and he speaks of this age as the first resurrection.
And those who are the believers are the ones who had the first resurrection, because Jesus said in John 5, 24, he said, He that hears my words and believes in him that sent me has everlasting life and will not come into condemnation because he has passed from death into life. Now, we who are believers have passed from death into life. Jesus said that's a resurrection, but it's a spiritual resurrection.
And so in this present age, believers have experienced a spiritual resurrection. That's we call it being born again, being regenerated. And this is called the first resurrection because we will also experience a physical resurrection later.
For us, it's the first. We have something of a resurrection spiritually now. And when Jesus comes back, we'll have another resurrection.
This will be of our bodies this time. But the unbelievers who don't experience the first resurrection and they die, they don't get raised again until the bodies are raised at the end. That's at the end of the thousand years.
So that's how I understand that. I realize that can be confusing, especially if you've only heard one view, or even if you've heard both views, it still might be confusing. But I have lectures on this, on Revelation 20, at our website, thenarrowpath.com.
If you look under verse by verse lectures, you'll find my lectures through the whole Bible, and there's lectures on Revelation. And you can listen to one on Revelation 20, and you'll hear at least what I think it means. You'll certainly find what other people think it means.
I'm listening to other sources. I appreciate your call, Terrence. Let's talk to Fred from Alameda, California.
Welcome to The Narrow Path, Fred.
Yes, hi.
I had a friend who referred to Judas as Caryat as the son of perdition. And my question is, is this an accurate label, and what exactly does that mean, the son of perdition?
Yeah, it is an accurate label, and Jesus himself used it when he was praying. He said to the father in Chapter 17 of John, he says, all that you've given me, I have lost nothing except the son of perdition. And he's referring to Judas.
Now, the son of perdition is also used in another place in Second Thessalonians 2 in talking about the man of sin. So both of them are said to be sons of perdition. In fact, some people have thought, since Judas is called the son of perdition, and the man of sin is also called that, maybe the man of sin is Judas come back.
Now, I don't believe that, but there are some who've taken that view because of that. But you see, son of perdition is actually not a proper name or title. The word perdition, the Greek word means destruction.
And to say he's a son of destruction, that's a Hebrewism, a Hebrew way of saying, a person is going to be destroyed. A son of some phenomenon in the Hebrew idiom often means somebody who experiences that. We wouldn't talk that way, but we're not the Hebrews and the Bible is written in their language, not ours.
So, son of perdition just means someone who's going to be destroyed, a person who will be destroyed, because perdition means destruction. Now, Judas, of course, was destroyed, and so he was the son of perdition, and so is the man of sin. Now, it might even suggest not only that he's going to be destroyed, but that he's destined to be destroyed.
There might be something more than just the fact of what's going to happen. There may be the insinuation that God has, in a sense, predestined this person for that destruction. And that would be reasonable too, because God has predestined that people who are wicked will be destroyed.
And so, Judas chose to be wicked, so he's in that category. But the term is used as I say two different people, and I don't think that means that the two people are to be identified with each other. I think it's just a phrase that means the one who's destined to be destroyed.
All right, there's a lot of noise on your line, but I hope that helps you. See, Dwight from Denver, Colorado. Welcome to The Narrow Path.
Good to hear from you.
Yes, Steve, are there any verses in the New Testament that tells us that Gentiles are also part of or under the New Covenant?
Well, frankly, yeah, we, Paul said in 1st and 2nd Corinthians 3, that he was a minister of the New Covenant. Now, Paul was an apostle to the Gentiles, and the Corinthians he was writing to were Gentiles. So obviously, he's saying they're part of the New Covenant.
They're the product of his ministry, and he's a minister of the New Covenant. There'd be no reason to distinguish. I realized that Jeremiah said God would make the New Covenant with the House of Israel and the House of Judah.
And so some people think the New Covenant is only for Israel, but that's not taken into account the fact that Israel never was all Jewish. Even in the Old Testament, a Gentile could be part of Israel. And in the New Israel, which is in Christ, there's even more Gentiles than Jews.
Israel, whether in the Old Testament or the New, referred to people who were in the Covenant, people of God, and a Gentile could be in there as much as a Jew. And there were Gentiles in there. I mean, you could be a proselyte, a Gentile who converts to Jesus.
Then you're part of Israel. And it's true now. Jesus made the New Covenant with the remnant of Israel, the disciples.
They were Jewish. But later Gentiles were allowed to come in when they heard about it. And Paul talks about it.
The Gentiles who have had faith have been grafted into the same tree as the Jews who had faith, which is the New Israel. And so God has made the New Covenant with the house of Israel. Though it only applies to the remnant of Israel, the faithful.
And that, of course, the Old Testament suggested that anyway. So yeah, there's Gentiles are part of that remnant now, just as they were part of Israel in the Old Testament. Some of them were.
Not all were. But anyone who was faithful to God was part of Israel through the Covenant. Okay.
Thanks.
All right, Dwight. I appreciate your call.
Bye.
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Mary from Santa Cruz is next. Hi, Mary. Good to hear from you again.
Hi, Steve. I have been listening to your Life of Christ lecture series, and that it's the Christian's prerogative to go by the teachings of Christ, and not by church traditions, or possibly maybe the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. And I want to apply this question as there's a very, very well-known brother, and this is a big controversy, and probably a lot of people know about it.
I don't want to mention his name because it's just going to stir things up. But he received a lot of persecution for advice he gave to a grandmother regarding a wedding.
Oh, yes. I remember the case.
Yes. Well, he encouraged her to go. And when he did this, he did it specifically to her in her circumstance based on compassion and her particular situation.
But he has received horrible persecution, in my opinion.
Still, huh? This happened a while ago, right?
Oh, yes.
I remember it was controversial at the time.
Well, there's just a video from yesterday. A podcaster said that he absolutely has to repent, and he won't. He won't repent of what he did because he said, in another circumstance, I would have given different advice.
And here's the question. I believe this brother should be given the benefit of the doubt, rather than being thrown off all the many stations that he was on. He's a wonderful brother.
Yeah.
And the attitude of the Christians doing this to him, I believe, is not according to the teachings of Christ. What do you say?
Yeah, I think Christians can be a little bit too judgmental. I mean, that's an understatement, obviously. Christians are often too judgmental.
As I understand it, this brother had an older woman, I think her daughter or niece or someone who's getting married in a same-sex marriage. And it was a transgender. A transgender one.
A transgender.
And so I think he had struggles with it. But given the circumstances, and I don't remember what they all were, he judged that the thing that would most glorify God in this particular instance would be for her to accept the invitation. I don't know what other advice he gave her.
He might have said, accept the invitation with these caveats or whatever. Of course, I don't have the details of the situation. But this man is an evangelical leader.
He's a very influential brother. Yes, very influential.
And he's on radio stations all over the place. So he's a wise Bible teacher in general. I don't know that I would have given the same advice.
But if I knew as much about the situation as he does, maybe I would have. I don't know. I don't think any of us are in the position to judge a man for the advice he gave, if he gave it according to a good conscience.
And he's not some kind of a reprobate who's out advising people to do immoral things. I mean, obviously, he's against transgenderism. He's against gay marriage.
I mean, he's an evangelical. He loves the Lord. He teaches the Bible well.
And, you know, maybe he's making a mistake. I don't know if he is or not. But if he is, that's not something to crucify him over.
We have to believe he is making a judgment based on his Christian conscience and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. The Bible, of course, doesn't say anything directly on the subject of going to a wedding of a transgender person. And therefore, the decision to do so or not is going to come from the way that any given Christian who's facing that invitation applies their moral values along with all other Christian considerations and tries to do the thing best in the side of God.
Now, not everyone's going to see it the same way. We might say, what's the obvious?
This was a grandchild of hers, and she couldn't figure out the right thing to do. So, of course, she asked him. And my question is, shouldn't a Christian be allowed to decide something of this nature, a yes or no, based on the exact circumstances that you're in, based on your own spirit and your own feeling of the leading of the Lord, rather than a principle, a general principle of right and wrong?
So these brothers who are condemning him are saying, you can never, ever show any kind of approval of this sort of thing. And it wasn't about her showing approval. It was about showing her grandchild love.
I know. Well, here's what I say. I say there are many things in our society that are sinful, that we as Christians, we can say on principle, we cannot do them.
But when somebody else who's not a Christian does them, the Bible doesn't tell us that we have to do a particular thing, one way or the other. In fact, Paul says in 1 Corinthians 5, that the standards for Christian conduct are for Christians. He says, I wrote you an epistle not to keep company of fornicators and other debauched people, but he said, I didn't mean those in the world because you'd have to leave the world if you weren't going to keep company with fornicators.
If we included those who are in the world, he said, I'm talking about people who call themselves brethren. If a man calls himself a brother and does these things, then don't associate with them. Now, I don't know if her granddaughter calls herself a Christian or not, but I think that in the days of Paul, calling yourself a Christian meant something considerably more than it means in modern Western civilization because a person called himself a Christian because he was part of the fellowship of the saints, you know, part of the unity of the saints and so forth.
Today, anyone can call themselves a Christian and not have any connection with Christianity at all, including Christ. So, I mean, I think what Paul is saying is you don't want the church to seem to be supporting fornication. And therefore, if somebody is a part of the church and they're fornicating, well, then that's what matter for church discipline.
But this isn't even the same kind of question. The girl in question is not the one they're trying to discipline. She's the one doing the bad thing.
You know, the grandma is not doing a bad thing. She can stay home and do nothing, or she can go to the wedding and say nothing, or she can go to the wedding and speak to someone about it and say, I don't care for this. I mean, the Bible doesn't say what to do in those cases.
You do what you feel led to do that you feel is consistent with your convictions. But going to a wedding, you know, I've gone to weddings of people who the person had left their spouse before and married someone else. To my mind, that's not a marriage.
But I didn't feel, I mean, the person's knew how I felt about it. But, you know, going to a wedding doesn't always mean to everybody that you're endorsing it. It should.
I believe that, ideally, going to a wedding is your way of celebrating something you endorse and agree with. But that's not always understood to be the case. So it certainly is not the case that the Bible tells us that going to a wedding, even if it's not a good wedding, is a sin.
Now, even if the person getting married is sinning by getting married, you going to the wedding is not anywhere in the Bible said to be a sin. So I think that church discipline is to be enacted against people who are sinning. Grandma is not sinning if she goes to that wedding.
Now, if she encourages the sin, she says, hey, I hope you guys have a great marriage and it lasts forever. Well, obviously, you can't wish that if you have Christian convictions in such a case, but I don't think she's doing that. So to my mind, this is to try to separate from a minister because he gave what he thought was good advice.
Even if we think that wasn't good advice, that's not good advice. And say he has to repent of that advice. Well, why should he repent if he doesn't believe it was wrong?
Who are you to judge another man's servant, Paul said. Now, if he was sinning himself, well, that'd be a different thing. If the minister is sinning, then there's church discipline.
He's not sinning. Even grandma's not sinning. And he's just talking to grandma.
There's nothing wrong with that. And if he expresses his opinion, how can a man be, how can a godly man be persecuted for expressing his opinion? He believes it's, he believes God would have it.
Anyway, I, yeah, I didn't realize this was still a controversy. I haven't heard much about it lately. But anyway, I'm, I'm on his side, even though I don't believe he, I don't think I would have given the same advice, but maybe, again, I don't know the situation as much as he does.
So it's none of my business. But whether he gave good advice or bad advice, I'm certainly on his side against his critics in this case, because I think it's none of their business. He's not sinning.
He's not doing a sin himself. I agree. Anyway, I appreciate your call, but thanks for the update on that.
It's kind of discouraging. Tony in Orcas Island, Washington. Hi, Tony, welcome.
Oh, hi. Yeah, okay. I've listened to your show for quite a while, the last few years, and really like it.
And I don't know, just a little while back, I think one of your callers mentioned something about, I don't know how to frame it, maybe God doesn't really communicate with us or talk to us or whatever. And I thought, yeah, I wouldn't trust anyone with like, that would say that they have new prophecy from God. But here's the thing that I've experienced.
Let me see, in 1980, I was born again. I was 16. And before that, when I was really little, my mom told me about God and Jesus and sent me to Sunday school.
So I never doubted. Anyway, so over the last several years, every once in a great while, I know it's from God. I am a gardener.
And there was one time to where it was the very end of the day, the owners of the place left, so there was no one there. And I was tired. And I thought, what can I do for the last few minutes just to make it look good?
And I won't hear any complaints. And I go home. So I grabbed a rake and started raking under this big pear tree by their garage.
And that's all I had on my mind. And all of a sudden, it wasn't an out loud voice. It was almost like, I don't know, telepathy or God just kind of like hijacked my thoughts and told me to...
It was the exact words I heard and like very quietly were stepped out into the driveway now. And so I did. And as soon as I looked at my boots on the gravel, I was going to start wondering what it was all about.
Well, I didn't have time. I heard a crack and I looked up in the tree where I had just been standing under and I watched this huge limb break off the tree and sail and hit the ground where I was.
Well, that's tremendous. That's tremendous. I believe...
I mean, if you want to tell me that was God speaking to you, I can accept that. I've never said it. I've never suggested that God doesn't speak to people.
I'm not sure what call you're referring to. I don't even know what the caller was saying because I don't remember the call. But if you thought that there's...
that I hold the position that God doesn't ever speak to people, well, you misunderstand me. I believe God does speak to us. I don't think he does it as often as some people claim.
I think a lot of people say, God said this to me and God told me this, and I think they say that a lot of times when they're really just expressing their strong emotions or feelings. But the fact that people say that God told them things when perhaps he didn't doesn't mean that there's never any times when he did. I personally do believe that God speaks to us, so I appreciate that testimony.
Wade from Willamard, California. Welcome. Yeah.
Hi, Steve.
Hey, good to hear from you.
Yeah. Hey, somebody asked me just the other day here about doing, the Bible is not accurate. They're contradicting itself.
And they were referring to the taking nothing for your journey, neither staff, nor wallet, nor bread, nor money. That was Luke. And then Mark says the opposite.
He says he commanded them that they should take nothing for the journey except a staff only. And then Matt, who on the other hand, doesn't, says also no staff. So I wasn't quite sure how to answer that.
I did read somewhere that there's two types of staff, a short one for defense and a long one for walking. But I was just curious what your thoughts and maybe how I would have answered that.
Yeah, well, that's of course when Jesus was sending out the 12 two by two to visit villages and evangelize and preach the gospel for short term outreach. And he did give instructions about traveling light and don't take money and things like that. But you're right, that is mentioned in two or three of the gospels.
And one of them reads a little differently than the others. I think, as you said, one of them says take a staff, the other says don't take a staff. Well, what we have to assume is that one of those is representing what Jesus said and the other one isn't.
Now, let's just say Jesus said take a staff. And then one of the gospel writers wrote, we find in another gospel, he said, don't take a staff. Did I just say it that way or the other way?
Anyway, obviously, there are times when the gospel writers don't give the same details, but even if they do, it's not always the case that the copyists who copied their writings have copied it correctly. And all the gospels that we have, all the biblical books have come down to us through many copies and textual critics, which are people who study all these different copies to see which ones go back to the original more. They recognize that there are some copyists, that is scribes who made copies of them, who made mistakes.
This is not problematic. This happens every time human beings copy something. I mean, if you have a critic that says, oh, the Bible can't be true because of this difference, just tell him, why don't you take a few hours and just copy out the Book of Luke by hand yourself?
And then when you're done, see if you made any typos, see if you made any mistakes. If you did, then you're about normal. And the people who copied the gospel for us were about normal in that respect.
So as human beings, they did make mistakes, which means that the manuscripts have come down to us, in some cases, containing these small mistakes. Now, someone says, well, if there's mistakes in the manuscripts, how can we trust the Bible? Well, let's not over exaggerate this.
It doesn't matter to me whether Jesus told them to take a staff or not take a staff on that occasion. It really doesn't make any difference in my life. It doesn't make any difference in my belief in Christ.
It doesn't make any belief difference in my understanding of Christian duty. In other words, if a copyist has made a small error, and it's 100 percent inconsequential, then to make an issue of it is just to be anal. More anal than is reasonable, you know?
I'm willing to believe that one of those accounts, in disagreement with another of them, may represent what we call a scribal error, of which plenty of them exist. But the great thing about this is that the textual critics who have spent their whole lives studying these manuscripts have said, these textual variations that are made by scribes, they never affect any major issues, you know. It's like a lot of times it would be that they misspelled a word, or in writing a sentence, they put the words in a different order but didn't change the meaning.
In some cases, they leave out a word by accident. But in many cases, most cases you can tell where they left out a word because it doesn't make as much sense without that word or whatever. I mean, there is such a thing as being a Bible student and scholar that you study these things.
If a person is not serious about the word of God, God doesn't owe it to that person to yield a deep understanding of it. But people who are serious students soon find out that the little mistakes that scribal heirs have made, they don't really have any impact. There's no doctrine of scripture that is adversely affected by some questionable scribal variant.
So, I'm willing to believe that the manuscripts as we have them do contain a contradiction there. And it's not the only case. There's lots of cases.
But I'm willing also to say that doesn't mean that any of the gospel writers made that mistake. I mean, it's possible they all wrote exactly the same thing, but one of them, in the course of being copied, a scribe put a different word in or left a word out, in which case it came down to us to this day with a change in it. That's not a problem with the original author.
That's a problem with the process of what we call transmission of the manuscripts. So people sometimes think that we Christians believe the Bible is a magical book, that it kind of fell down from heaven between leather covers in King James English or something. And therefore, if you find anything like that, that's a problem.
Well, that just disproves the Christian view. It's obvious that this is not magical. It's got all the errors that a book written by humans would have.
Well, that's just it. It was written by humans. And it was not only read by humans, it was copied by humans.
And so, you know, if a person is looking for a magic book, the Bible is not the place to look for one. It's not. It contains what the New Testament contains is historical records of the life of Jesus Christ and of the apostles in the Book of Acts.
And then it's got letters written by apostles to various churches. And if you take it as anything other than that, you're taking it as more than it claims to be. And you're setting up yourself up for stumbling blocks that are unnecessary.
So I will say this, that when I teach that passage, I have to say, well, there's a difference here between these two Gospels. One says they were to take staffs, the other says they're not. So somewhere along the line, one of these things got copied wrong, but it doesn't matter.
You know, I don't care if they took a staff or if they didn't take a staff. You know, when I read the Bible, I'm getting trying to get to know God. I'm trying to get to know Jesus.
And I'm especially trying to get to know what my duties are, what pleases him and what he wants me to do and not to do. That's the purpose of studying the scripture. And little things like that have zero impact on what I'm looking for in the Bible.
If I'm looking for a magic book, yeah, they'd have an impact. But I've already given up that idea.
Yeah. Okay. That's pretty much how I took it to and after I reflected on it.
But when they asked me, I had not even, I didn't even know about the discrepancy. It's really Mark with Matthew and Luke. And I thought I'd just listen to how to answer it.
And then later I read about it and said, well, I was sure I would like to hear Steve's... Yeah.
Well, there's a lot of teachers that are more reluctant than I am to admit that there are these kinds of issues in the Bible. But I've been studying the Bible for 55 years. You can't ignore these things.
And why pretend? I mean, if you're trying to hide something from people, how are you teaching them the truth, you know? It seems to me that we should teach people the truth as it is, the way it is may have to correct some of our superstitions or some of our ideas.
But the real question we have to ask is when all the truth is known, do we have a reliable record of the life and teachings of Jesus, which is what I'm looking for? And the answer is yes. And, you know, if I'm looking for more than that, I may sometimes be disappointed with what I find.
But a lot of teachers don't want to, they feel like they're giving up the farm if they say that. They feel like, you know, every word in the Bible is exactly the way the Holy Spirit inspired it. Well, people like that either don't study the Bible very well or they're deceiving people because there are little issues like that in various parts of the Bible.
The question has got to be, does that ruin my faith? Or do I just take that and stress it? Okay, now I know that.
Let's move on and follow Jesus. That would be my approach.
I'm right there, and I thank you for that.
Okay, wait. All right, thank you. Oh, I'm sorry.
I hit the button because I'm moving on, but I'm sorry I missed your last, what you were going on to say. We're almost out of time here. The show is just about to end.
Sharon in Las Vegas, welcome to The Narrow Path.
Hi, Steve. My name is Sharon, and we met you, my son and I, Tom, met you a couple of times in Las Vegas and went on the Alaskan cruise with you.
Oh, I remember. Sure.
Again, your lovely wife, Dana. And I wanted to call because the gentleman that called was going through such misery, and it hurts because I can relate. And then the other lady that was having the problem with, oh, jeez, when the church, she went to the gay wedding, whatever.
What about... I always... My aunt gave me a scripture to Roman date 28.
For all things work together for good, for those who love the Lord and are called according to His purpose. And for the judgmental ones, which I think is... I kind of feel sorry for them.
Or even when I judge myself, because I've been given choices in my life, and I just praise the Lord. And then, I think... And I don't know scripture for it, if it would be...
I think the Lord is making his ends of diamond pearls for him. How do you make a diamond? How do you make a pearl?
It's not real, funny games. It hurts.
That's right. It comes from pain in the oyster and pressure on the coal. So you're right.
You're right about that. I appreciate your input. I'm going to try to get one more call in here from Rand in St. Augustine, Florida.
Hi, Rand. Welcome.
Hello, Steve.
Hi.
Hi, Steve. My question has to do with the baptism of the Holy Spirit with the gift of tongues. I'm 78 now, but when I was in my 20s, I received a baptism with the gift of speaking in tongues.
And at that time, I went to a church that they practiced pretty orderly, the gift of speaking in tongues and interpretation. But I never spoke in that regard. My gift, I use as prayer language.
But a lot happened at that time, and I fell away. The last 15 years I've come back. I have read all of your literature on tongues and how that is overemphasized quite frequently.
But in my particular case, I use tongues as a prayer language. And when I'm out of words, when I don't know how to express myself, or I don't know fully the details of what I'm praying for, I speak in tongues and I pray with all of my heart.
How do you respond to that? I say more power to you. I think that's fine.
I think that Paul said that if someone wants to speak in tongues in the church and there's no interpreter, he said, let him speak to himself and to God. So in other words, tongues can be used that way too, to speak just to God, not publicly. So speaking in tongues in the church with an interpretation is not the only use of tongues that Paul acknowledges.
He's mainly focused on that in 1 Corinthians 14 where he talks about church order and protocols. But he says it is, of course, possible, if there's no interpretation, to just use it to pray, just pray in tongues. So I would affirm that that's a biblical thing.
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All right, so that's tonight at 7, and something else every other night. So just want you to know about that before we go to the phone. Our phone lines are full.
So we'll talk first of all to John from East Meadow, New York. John, welcome to The Narrow Path. Thanks for joining us.
Hey Steve, hi. Yeah, I have kind of like a two-part question. When Jesus resurrected, is it true that he only appeared to those at the Quorum Church and as disciples?
And did, whether that's the case or not, did the Pharisees and others eventually go to the tomb and realize that Jesus had resurrected? Did the townspeople understand that eventually?
Right. Well, the Bible indicates that Jesus appeared to quite a lot of people. We don't know all their names, but the impression is that these were people who had been his disciples, with one exception, and that was Jesus' brother James.
James was not a believer before Jesus rose from the dead, but he later became an important person in the church, and apparently God had a plan for him. So in spite of the fact that James, the brother of Jesus, was not a believer, at the time Jesus appeared to him, and that apparently caused him and the other brothers of Jesus to become believers as well, including Jude. So apart from James, I don't know of any other unbelievers that were appeared to him.
Now Paul does say in 1 Corinthians 15, that there was one point where 500 people saw him at one time. He doesn't say where that was, when that was, or who it was. But my impression is that probably happened in Galilee where Jesus had a lot of followers, and he probably was meeting with a gathering of his believers.
So no, he didn't appear to the Pharisees, or he didn't appear to, you know, anyone else, except, of course, Saul of Tarsus on the way to Damascus. That was later. Now, did the Pharisees go and check the empty tomb to see if he was risen?
They probably did. I'm sure at least some of them did. They must have at least sent some agents there to check it out because when the apostles began to teach that Jesus was risen from the dead, that was an annoying and troublesome teaching to the leaders of the Jews.
And so they would gladly have wanted to debunk that, which would be an easy thing to do if they could just go to the tomb and find the body of Jesus. So I'm sure that that was one of the first things they did. You know, when they heard that Jesus rose from the dead, in all likelihood, someone was sent from them to go and check and make sure that the tomb didn't have the body in it.
Because if it did, that would be very advantageous to them in wanting to debunk the teaching of the disciples. So we have to assume that, you know, they did check the tomb. Now, there is a record in Matthew that the guards at the tomb went and reported what had happened to the chief priests.
And the chief priests paid them off to claim that they had fallen asleep and that the disciples had stolen the body. And Matthew says, and that is the rumor that continues among the Jews to this day, meaning by the time Matthew wrote this, that rumor is still around among the Jews. So they apparently, even if they found the body not there, they didn't give up the faith and become Christians, they instead they made up a story that the disciples had stolen the body.
Which was not a very realistic story, because we have no reason to believe the disciples had an interest in stealing the body. The disciples had become despondent. They weren't interested in starting a religion.
They wanted to go back to fishing. And if they did want to steal the body, which would be a strange thing to want to do, how could they pull it off when there were guards at the tomb and so forth? So I think the story that the disciples stole the body never did really ring true, but it worked for people who wanted to remain doubters, I would say.
Okay.
Thank you very much, Steve.
Have a good night. All right. All right.
God bless you. Okay. Our next caller is Eddie from Dearborn, Michigan.
Hi, Eddie. Welcome.
Hey, Steve. How are you? I hope you're doing well.
Okay. So Steve, I don't want to speak for a long time, so I'm going to ask you my question and then get off the phone. And I want to share your audience a lot of maybe grief.
I recently went through a lot of hardship and turmoil, a lot of suffering. I've heard you say that just like David in the Old Testament, how he counted the numbers, just like how God was angry with Pharaoh, that the Lord was already angry with them to begin with. Hence, this is the reason why he blinded their eyes.
And I've also heard you say that the Lord has glory, will receive glory by our suffering. I'm suffering a lot, Steve. Is the Lord receiving glory by this?
Because it's at my expense. And at my expense, I am down and out all day. I just don't know how to continue on with life.
Right. So you read in the Bible that when we suffer, God can be glorified in it. And you're suffering.
And so you wonder if God is being glorified. Well, God is not automatically glorified in our suffering. But our suffering is an opportunity to glorify God.
And what that means is if we respond to our sufferings, trusting God, He gives us grace in those sufferings. And therefore, we are strengthened in those sufferings. And God is glorified in that.
Because everybody experiences sufferings. You don't have to be a Christian to experience sufferings. The world is full of sufferings.
And most people are just Christians. It just makes the Lord look like a sadist.
I'm sorry to interrupt. It just makes him look like a sadist to others that maybe are hearing it. And was he already mad at me before?
Wait, wait, wait.
Why would it make God look like a sadist? Why would it make God look like a sadist? What caused your problems?
How is your suffering? Is your suffering caused by sickness?
I know that it caused me. Yes, me.
Yes.
OK, then how does that make God look bad if you're causing your own sufferings?
It leads to him going through and approving the decision of Satan to attack me, perhaps, just like he did with Job.
Well, God allows the devil to test everybody, not just you. Everyone's tests are a different kind, but God is not a sadist by testing us. Just like a professor in a university is not a sadist when he gives exams to his students.
The idea is hoping they will pass them. They might not. They should.
But he hopes they will pass them. And so God gives us that opportunity to glorify him in sufferings and to learn and to gain from it. And Paul said that our light affliction, which is but for a moment, works for us a far more exceeding an eternal weight of glory.
While we don't look at the things that are seen, but the things are not seen. So in our sufferings, we set our eyes not on the things that are seen, but on the things that are not seen, which is of course God and his purposes and his grace. Those things that are not seen are the things that cause our present sufferings to work for us an eternal weight of glory.
Now, we would suffer whether God had any role in it or not. I mean, we bring suffering on ourselves. God didn't bring suffering into the world, man did.
And the question is whether God allows us to suffer. You notice whether he lets influences that would cause suffering or not, whether he lets them come or doesn't let them come. Well, he's under no obligation to stop them.
Where's my way out? He's supposed to give me a way out. I'm supposed to be his.
Where's my way out? How much longer do I have to suffer?
Well, of course, I can't answer how long you have to suffer or what your way out is. Your way out is into the arms of Christ. That doesn't mean you're not going to suffer.
You might suffer every day of your life. There's many people who do. The Apostle Paul certainly did.
He was beaten, he was imprisoned, he was shipwrecked, he had stripes innumerable from beatings and so forth. And he suffered a lot. And I don't think he ever got out of his sufferings until he was beheaded and went to be with Jesus.
So when Paul wrote Philippians, he was in a third world jail, pretty miserable. And he said, hey, I'm eager to depart from here and be with Christ. Yeah, that's kind of you kind of feel that even more when you're suffering than when you're not.
So our escape from suffering is not in this world necessarily, though God sometimes in this life does give us periods of relief. But none is guaranteed. This world is not a place of enjoyment.
It's a place of testing. It's a place of preparing. It's where we're being vetted to reign with Christ in another world at another time.
So when do you get out of it? I'd say when you die. Now, the sufferings you're going through right now, I don't know what they are, but they may be temporary.
They may go away at some point. You may be delivered from them or not. I have friends who are in chronic pain.
They're in excruciating pain all the time, day and night, for years. And I'm sure they're thinking, you know, when can I get out of this? And you know, we don't know.
When God wants you to get out of this, when you know. The thing is, it's hard to be, you know, not thinking about yourself when you're in great pain. Obviously, when you're in great pain, it's hard not to think about relief.
But that's true whether you're a Christian or not. The Christian's life is supposed to be different than a non-Christian because we have God. We trust God.
We believe that nothing is going to happen to us. That can destroy us if we're trusting him. And that nothing that he allows to happen to us will harm us in any way that he can't make some good come from it, that makes it worthwhile.
And so again, I don't have any idea of what form of suffering you're going through. But obviously, I also can't predict when whatever suffering you're going through may be relieved, if at all. But we're told to be strong and of good courage and to fight like a man.
And what we're fighting against is the temptation to cave in, the temptation to lose faith, the temptation to compromise because we're disappointed with God, because he's letting us go through stuff and not removing it from us. The Apostle Paul had a thorn in the flesh, which apparently agonized him all the time. It was excruciating and apparently for years.
And he prayed three times that Christ would take it away. And Jesus said, No, my grace is sufficient for you. My strength is made perfect in your suffering.
Now, that would be true of you or anybody who's a believer in Christ, that God gives grace as needed, as we trust him. Now, will we trust him? That's kind of up to us.
And so how you'll come out is whether God will be glorified in this suffering of yours, or whether it'll be wasted suffering and nothing comes of it. That's kind of up to you to decide if you can trust God, you're going to glorify God in the fire. That's up to you.
That's what every Christian has to decide to do. But the Bible does talk about people suffering in vain. Paul said to the Galatians who are about to fall from the faith because they're suffering.
He said, have I endured these things for nothing, in vain? In the prophets, God says, I struck you in vain. You didn't change.
So the issue here is, it's not on God to decide if he's going to be glorified in this. That's on you. You can suffer and not bring glory to God, in which case you suffered for nothing.
But if you suffer and bring glory to God, that's got eternal consequences of value to you and to God and to others. So I just suggest that you listen to my lectures, Making Sense Out of Suffering. If you have listened to them, I'd say listen to them again.
Making Sense Out of Suffering is four lectures at our website, thenarrowpath.com under the tab that says Topical Lectures. Okay, we'll talk to Terrence from Little Rock, Arkansas. Terrence, welcome to The Narrow Path.
Thanks for calling.
Revelation chapter 20 verse 5, But the rest of the dead live not again until the thousand years were finished. Who are the rest of the dead in Revelation chapter 20 verse 5?
Who are the rest of the dead who don't live again until after a thousand years are finished? The answer to that question depends on how you understand what that thousand years is and when it is. If it is talking about a future millennium, as many people believe, that begins when Jesus returns, then the rest of the dead are those who are not part of the first resurrection as it says.
It says he saw the first resurrection. He saw the souls of the saints who were beheaded for Christ, sitting on thrones and reigning with Christ, but the rest of the dead didn't live again until the end of the thousand years. So the way a pre-millennial view holds this is that Jesus comes back at the beginning of the thousand years.
He sets up a thousand year reign on earth, and he has resurrected only the saints, only the believers, and they are reigning with him for a thousand years. But the unbelievers don't get raised from the dead until at the end of the millennium. And you find, of course, at the end of that chapter, the sea gives up the dead, and death and Hades give up the dead, and they're all judged from the things written in the books and so forth.
So if a person takes the thousand years to be a future millennium, the rest of the dead are the people who've died throughout history, who will not be resurrected until the end of that time. But that is in contrast to the ones who have at that time been resurrected, who would be the Christians resurrected at the time Jesus returned. And therefore, the Christians would be reigning with Christ for the thousand years, and the other people who were not Christians would not be raised at all until afterwards.
Now, I'm not a pre-millennialist. I believe that the thousand years is a symbol of the period between the first coming and the second coming of Christ. So the age we're living in, it's symbolizes.
And Jesus bound Satan at his first coming at the cross, and he'll destroy him, as it says in Chapter 20, Verse 9, in flaming fire when he comes back in his second coming. In the meantime, John saw in a vision people in heaven who had died who were Christians, and we know it was dead people because he saw their souls. He said, I saw the souls of those who had been martyred.
Well, their souls would be in their bodies if they weren't dead. He saw their disembodied souls, and that's where they go when they die. So he sees where the martyrs have gone, who have died during this age, and he speaks of this age as the first resurrection.
And those who are the believers are the ones who had the first resurrection, because Jesus said in John 5, 24, he said, He that hears my words and believes in him that sent me has everlasting life and will not come into condemnation because he has passed from death into life. Now, we who are believers have passed from death into life. Jesus said that's a resurrection, but it's a spiritual resurrection.
And so in this present age, believers have experienced a spiritual resurrection. That's we call it being born again, being regenerated. And this is called the first resurrection because we will also experience a physical resurrection later.
For us, it's the first. We have something of a resurrection spiritually now. And when Jesus comes back, we'll have another resurrection.
This will be of our bodies this time. But the unbelievers who don't experience the first resurrection and they die, they don't get raised again until the bodies are raised at the end. That's at the end of the thousand years.
So that's how I understand that. I realize that can be confusing, especially if you've only heard one view, or even if you've heard both views, it still might be confusing. But I have lectures on this, on Revelation 20, at our website, thenarrowpath.com.
If you look under verse by verse lectures, you'll find my lectures through the whole Bible, and there's lectures on Revelation. And you can listen to one on Revelation 20, and you'll hear at least what I think it means. You'll certainly find what other people think it means.
I'm listening to other sources. I appreciate your call, Terrence. Let's talk to Fred from Alameda, California.
Welcome to The Narrow Path, Fred.
Yes, hi.
I had a friend who referred to Judas as Caryat as the son of perdition. And my question is, is this an accurate label, and what exactly does that mean, the son of perdition?
Yeah, it is an accurate label, and Jesus himself used it when he was praying. He said to the father in Chapter 17 of John, he says, all that you've given me, I have lost nothing except the son of perdition. And he's referring to Judas.
Now, the son of perdition is also used in another place in Second Thessalonians 2 in talking about the man of sin. So both of them are said to be sons of perdition. In fact, some people have thought, since Judas is called the son of perdition, and the man of sin is also called that, maybe the man of sin is Judas come back.
Now, I don't believe that, but there are some who've taken that view because of that. But you see, son of perdition is actually not a proper name or title. The word perdition, the Greek word means destruction.
And to say he's a son of destruction, that's a Hebrewism, a Hebrew way of saying, a person is going to be destroyed. A son of some phenomenon in the Hebrew idiom often means somebody who experiences that. We wouldn't talk that way, but we're not the Hebrews and the Bible is written in their language, not ours.
So, son of perdition just means someone who's going to be destroyed, a person who will be destroyed, because perdition means destruction. Now, Judas, of course, was destroyed, and so he was the son of perdition, and so is the man of sin. Now, it might even suggest not only that he's going to be destroyed, but that he's destined to be destroyed.
There might be something more than just the fact of what's going to happen. There may be the insinuation that God has, in a sense, predestined this person for that destruction. And that would be reasonable too, because God has predestined that people who are wicked will be destroyed.
And so, Judas chose to be wicked, so he's in that category. But the term is used as I say two different people, and I don't think that means that the two people are to be identified with each other. I think it's just a phrase that means the one who's destined to be destroyed.
All right, there's a lot of noise on your line, but I hope that helps you. See, Dwight from Denver, Colorado. Welcome to The Narrow Path.
Good to hear from you.
Yes, Steve, are there any verses in the New Testament that tells us that Gentiles are also part of or under the New Covenant?
Well, frankly, yeah, we, Paul said in 1st and 2nd Corinthians 3, that he was a minister of the New Covenant. Now, Paul was an apostle to the Gentiles, and the Corinthians he was writing to were Gentiles. So obviously, he's saying they're part of the New Covenant.
They're the product of his ministry, and he's a minister of the New Covenant. There'd be no reason to distinguish. I realized that Jeremiah said God would make the New Covenant with the House of Israel and the House of Judah.
And so some people think the New Covenant is only for Israel, but that's not taken into account the fact that Israel never was all Jewish. Even in the Old Testament, a Gentile could be part of Israel. And in the New Israel, which is in Christ, there's even more Gentiles than Jews.
Israel, whether in the Old Testament or the New, referred to people who were in the Covenant, people of God, and a Gentile could be in there as much as a Jew. And there were Gentiles in there. I mean, you could be a proselyte, a Gentile who converts to Jesus.
Then you're part of Israel. And it's true now. Jesus made the New Covenant with the remnant of Israel, the disciples.
They were Jewish. But later Gentiles were allowed to come in when they heard about it. And Paul talks about it.
The Gentiles who have had faith have been grafted into the same tree as the Jews who had faith, which is the New Israel. And so God has made the New Covenant with the house of Israel. Though it only applies to the remnant of Israel, the faithful.
And that, of course, the Old Testament suggested that anyway. So yeah, there's Gentiles are part of that remnant now, just as they were part of Israel in the Old Testament. Some of them were.
Not all were. But anyone who was faithful to God was part of Israel through the Covenant. Okay.
Thanks.
All right, Dwight. I appreciate your call.
Bye.
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Mary from Santa Cruz is next. Hi, Mary. Good to hear from you again.
Hi, Steve. I have been listening to your Life of Christ lecture series, and that it's the Christian's prerogative to go by the teachings of Christ, and not by church traditions, or possibly maybe the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. And I want to apply this question as there's a very, very well-known brother, and this is a big controversy, and probably a lot of people know about it.
I don't want to mention his name because it's just going to stir things up. But he received a lot of persecution for advice he gave to a grandmother regarding a wedding.
Oh, yes. I remember the case.
Yes. Well, he encouraged her to go. And when he did this, he did it specifically to her in her circumstance based on compassion and her particular situation.
But he has received horrible persecution, in my opinion.
Still, huh? This happened a while ago, right?
Oh, yes.
I remember it was controversial at the time.
Well, there's just a video from yesterday. A podcaster said that he absolutely has to repent, and he won't. He won't repent of what he did because he said, in another circumstance, I would have given different advice.
And here's the question. I believe this brother should be given the benefit of the doubt, rather than being thrown off all the many stations that he was on. He's a wonderful brother.
Yeah.
And the attitude of the Christians doing this to him, I believe, is not according to the teachings of Christ. What do you say?
Yeah, I think Christians can be a little bit too judgmental. I mean, that's an understatement, obviously. Christians are often too judgmental.
As I understand it, this brother had an older woman, I think her daughter or niece or someone who's getting married in a same-sex marriage. And it was a transgender. A transgender one.
A transgender.
And so I think he had struggles with it. But given the circumstances, and I don't remember what they all were, he judged that the thing that would most glorify God in this particular instance would be for her to accept the invitation. I don't know what other advice he gave her.
He might have said, accept the invitation with these caveats or whatever. Of course, I don't have the details of the situation. But this man is an evangelical leader.
He's a very influential brother. Yes, very influential.
And he's on radio stations all over the place. So he's a wise Bible teacher in general. I don't know that I would have given the same advice.
But if I knew as much about the situation as he does, maybe I would have. I don't know. I don't think any of us are in the position to judge a man for the advice he gave, if he gave it according to a good conscience.
And he's not some kind of a reprobate who's out advising people to do immoral things. I mean, obviously, he's against transgenderism. He's against gay marriage.
I mean, he's an evangelical. He loves the Lord. He teaches the Bible well.
And, you know, maybe he's making a mistake. I don't know if he is or not. But if he is, that's not something to crucify him over.
We have to believe he is making a judgment based on his Christian conscience and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. The Bible, of course, doesn't say anything directly on the subject of going to a wedding of a transgender person. And therefore, the decision to do so or not is going to come from the way that any given Christian who's facing that invitation applies their moral values along with all other Christian considerations and tries to do the thing best in the side of God.
Now, not everyone's going to see it the same way. We might say, what's the obvious?
This was a grandchild of hers, and she couldn't figure out the right thing to do. So, of course, she asked him. And my question is, shouldn't a Christian be allowed to decide something of this nature, a yes or no, based on the exact circumstances that you're in, based on your own spirit and your own feeling of the leading of the Lord, rather than a principle, a general principle of right and wrong?
So these brothers who are condemning him are saying, you can never, ever show any kind of approval of this sort of thing. And it wasn't about her showing approval. It was about showing her grandchild love.
I know. Well, here's what I say. I say there are many things in our society that are sinful, that we as Christians, we can say on principle, we cannot do them.
But when somebody else who's not a Christian does them, the Bible doesn't tell us that we have to do a particular thing, one way or the other. In fact, Paul says in 1 Corinthians 5, that the standards for Christian conduct are for Christians. He says, I wrote you an epistle not to keep company of fornicators and other debauched people, but he said, I didn't mean those in the world because you'd have to leave the world if you weren't going to keep company with fornicators.
If we included those who are in the world, he said, I'm talking about people who call themselves brethren. If a man calls himself a brother and does these things, then don't associate with them. Now, I don't know if her granddaughter calls herself a Christian or not, but I think that in the days of Paul, calling yourself a Christian meant something considerably more than it means in modern Western civilization because a person called himself a Christian because he was part of the fellowship of the saints, you know, part of the unity of the saints and so forth.
Today, anyone can call themselves a Christian and not have any connection with Christianity at all, including Christ. So, I mean, I think what Paul is saying is you don't want the church to seem to be supporting fornication. And therefore, if somebody is a part of the church and they're fornicating, well, then that's what matter for church discipline.
But this isn't even the same kind of question. The girl in question is not the one they're trying to discipline. She's the one doing the bad thing.
You know, the grandma is not doing a bad thing. She can stay home and do nothing, or she can go to the wedding and say nothing, or she can go to the wedding and speak to someone about it and say, I don't care for this. I mean, the Bible doesn't say what to do in those cases.
You do what you feel led to do that you feel is consistent with your convictions. But going to a wedding, you know, I've gone to weddings of people who the person had left their spouse before and married someone else. To my mind, that's not a marriage.
But I didn't feel, I mean, the person's knew how I felt about it. But, you know, going to a wedding doesn't always mean to everybody that you're endorsing it. It should.
I believe that, ideally, going to a wedding is your way of celebrating something you endorse and agree with. But that's not always understood to be the case. So it certainly is not the case that the Bible tells us that going to a wedding, even if it's not a good wedding, is a sin.
Now, even if the person getting married is sinning by getting married, you going to the wedding is not anywhere in the Bible said to be a sin. So I think that church discipline is to be enacted against people who are sinning. Grandma is not sinning if she goes to that wedding.
Now, if she encourages the sin, she says, hey, I hope you guys have a great marriage and it lasts forever. Well, obviously, you can't wish that if you have Christian convictions in such a case, but I don't think she's doing that. So to my mind, this is to try to separate from a minister because he gave what he thought was good advice.
Even if we think that wasn't good advice, that's not good advice. And say he has to repent of that advice. Well, why should he repent if he doesn't believe it was wrong?
Who are you to judge another man's servant, Paul said. Now, if he was sinning himself, well, that'd be a different thing. If the minister is sinning, then there's church discipline.
He's not sinning. Even grandma's not sinning. And he's just talking to grandma.
There's nothing wrong with that. And if he expresses his opinion, how can a man be, how can a godly man be persecuted for expressing his opinion? He believes it's, he believes God would have it.
Anyway, I, yeah, I didn't realize this was still a controversy. I haven't heard much about it lately. But anyway, I'm, I'm on his side, even though I don't believe he, I don't think I would have given the same advice, but maybe, again, I don't know the situation as much as he does.
So it's none of my business. But whether he gave good advice or bad advice, I'm certainly on his side against his critics in this case, because I think it's none of their business. He's not sinning.
He's not doing a sin himself. I agree. Anyway, I appreciate your call, but thanks for the update on that.
It's kind of discouraging. Tony in Orcas Island, Washington. Hi, Tony, welcome.
Oh, hi. Yeah, okay. I've listened to your show for quite a while, the last few years, and really like it.
And I don't know, just a little while back, I think one of your callers mentioned something about, I don't know how to frame it, maybe God doesn't really communicate with us or talk to us or whatever. And I thought, yeah, I wouldn't trust anyone with like, that would say that they have new prophecy from God. But here's the thing that I've experienced.
Let me see, in 1980, I was born again. I was 16. And before that, when I was really little, my mom told me about God and Jesus and sent me to Sunday school.
So I never doubted. Anyway, so over the last several years, every once in a great while, I know it's from God. I am a gardener.
And there was one time to where it was the very end of the day, the owners of the place left, so there was no one there. And I was tired. And I thought, what can I do for the last few minutes just to make it look good?
And I won't hear any complaints. And I go home. So I grabbed a rake and started raking under this big pear tree by their garage.
And that's all I had on my mind. And all of a sudden, it wasn't an out loud voice. It was almost like, I don't know, telepathy or God just kind of like hijacked my thoughts and told me to...
It was the exact words I heard and like very quietly were stepped out into the driveway now. And so I did. And as soon as I looked at my boots on the gravel, I was going to start wondering what it was all about.
Well, I didn't have time. I heard a crack and I looked up in the tree where I had just been standing under and I watched this huge limb break off the tree and sail and hit the ground where I was.
Well, that's tremendous. That's tremendous. I believe...
I mean, if you want to tell me that was God speaking to you, I can accept that. I've never said it. I've never suggested that God doesn't speak to people.
I'm not sure what call you're referring to. I don't even know what the caller was saying because I don't remember the call. But if you thought that there's...
that I hold the position that God doesn't ever speak to people, well, you misunderstand me. I believe God does speak to us. I don't think he does it as often as some people claim.
I think a lot of people say, God said this to me and God told me this, and I think they say that a lot of times when they're really just expressing their strong emotions or feelings. But the fact that people say that God told them things when perhaps he didn't doesn't mean that there's never any times when he did. I personally do believe that God speaks to us, so I appreciate that testimony.
Wade from Willamard, California. Welcome. Yeah.
Hi, Steve.
Hey, good to hear from you.
Yeah. Hey, somebody asked me just the other day here about doing, the Bible is not accurate. They're contradicting itself.
And they were referring to the taking nothing for your journey, neither staff, nor wallet, nor bread, nor money. That was Luke. And then Mark says the opposite.
He says he commanded them that they should take nothing for the journey except a staff only. And then Matt, who on the other hand, doesn't, says also no staff. So I wasn't quite sure how to answer that.
I did read somewhere that there's two types of staff, a short one for defense and a long one for walking. But I was just curious what your thoughts and maybe how I would have answered that.
Yeah, well, that's of course when Jesus was sending out the 12 two by two to visit villages and evangelize and preach the gospel for short term outreach. And he did give instructions about traveling light and don't take money and things like that. But you're right, that is mentioned in two or three of the gospels.
And one of them reads a little differently than the others. I think, as you said, one of them says take a staff, the other says don't take a staff. Well, what we have to assume is that one of those is representing what Jesus said and the other one isn't.
Now, let's just say Jesus said take a staff. And then one of the gospel writers wrote, we find in another gospel, he said, don't take a staff. Did I just say it that way or the other way?
Anyway, obviously, there are times when the gospel writers don't give the same details, but even if they do, it's not always the case that the copyists who copied their writings have copied it correctly. And all the gospels that we have, all the biblical books have come down to us through many copies and textual critics, which are people who study all these different copies to see which ones go back to the original more. They recognize that there are some copyists, that is scribes who made copies of them, who made mistakes.
This is not problematic. This happens every time human beings copy something. I mean, if you have a critic that says, oh, the Bible can't be true because of this difference, just tell him, why don't you take a few hours and just copy out the Book of Luke by hand yourself?
And then when you're done, see if you made any typos, see if you made any mistakes. If you did, then you're about normal. And the people who copied the gospel for us were about normal in that respect.
So as human beings, they did make mistakes, which means that the manuscripts have come down to us, in some cases, containing these small mistakes. Now, someone says, well, if there's mistakes in the manuscripts, how can we trust the Bible? Well, let's not over exaggerate this.
It doesn't matter to me whether Jesus told them to take a staff or not take a staff on that occasion. It really doesn't make any difference in my life. It doesn't make any difference in my belief in Christ.
It doesn't make any belief difference in my understanding of Christian duty. In other words, if a copyist has made a small error, and it's 100 percent inconsequential, then to make an issue of it is just to be anal. More anal than is reasonable, you know?
I'm willing to believe that one of those accounts, in disagreement with another of them, may represent what we call a scribal error, of which plenty of them exist. But the great thing about this is that the textual critics who have spent their whole lives studying these manuscripts have said, these textual variations that are made by scribes, they never affect any major issues, you know. It's like a lot of times it would be that they misspelled a word, or in writing a sentence, they put the words in a different order but didn't change the meaning.
In some cases, they leave out a word by accident. But in many cases, most cases you can tell where they left out a word because it doesn't make as much sense without that word or whatever. I mean, there is such a thing as being a Bible student and scholar that you study these things.
If a person is not serious about the word of God, God doesn't owe it to that person to yield a deep understanding of it. But people who are serious students soon find out that the little mistakes that scribal heirs have made, they don't really have any impact. There's no doctrine of scripture that is adversely affected by some questionable scribal variant.
So, I'm willing to believe that the manuscripts as we have them do contain a contradiction there. And it's not the only case. There's lots of cases.
But I'm willing also to say that doesn't mean that any of the gospel writers made that mistake. I mean, it's possible they all wrote exactly the same thing, but one of them, in the course of being copied, a scribe put a different word in or left a word out, in which case it came down to us to this day with a change in it. That's not a problem with the original author.
That's a problem with the process of what we call transmission of the manuscripts. So people sometimes think that we Christians believe the Bible is a magical book, that it kind of fell down from heaven between leather covers in King James English or something. And therefore, if you find anything like that, that's a problem.
Well, that just disproves the Christian view. It's obvious that this is not magical. It's got all the errors that a book written by humans would have.
Well, that's just it. It was written by humans. And it was not only read by humans, it was copied by humans.
And so, you know, if a person is looking for a magic book, the Bible is not the place to look for one. It's not. It contains what the New Testament contains is historical records of the life of Jesus Christ and of the apostles in the Book of Acts.
And then it's got letters written by apostles to various churches. And if you take it as anything other than that, you're taking it as more than it claims to be. And you're setting up yourself up for stumbling blocks that are unnecessary.
So I will say this, that when I teach that passage, I have to say, well, there's a difference here between these two Gospels. One says they were to take staffs, the other says they're not. So somewhere along the line, one of these things got copied wrong, but it doesn't matter.
You know, I don't care if they took a staff or if they didn't take a staff. You know, when I read the Bible, I'm getting trying to get to know God. I'm trying to get to know Jesus.
And I'm especially trying to get to know what my duties are, what pleases him and what he wants me to do and not to do. That's the purpose of studying the scripture. And little things like that have zero impact on what I'm looking for in the Bible.
If I'm looking for a magic book, yeah, they'd have an impact. But I've already given up that idea.
Yeah. Okay. That's pretty much how I took it to and after I reflected on it.
But when they asked me, I had not even, I didn't even know about the discrepancy. It's really Mark with Matthew and Luke. And I thought I'd just listen to how to answer it.
And then later I read about it and said, well, I was sure I would like to hear Steve's... Yeah.
Well, there's a lot of teachers that are more reluctant than I am to admit that there are these kinds of issues in the Bible. But I've been studying the Bible for 55 years. You can't ignore these things.
And why pretend? I mean, if you're trying to hide something from people, how are you teaching them the truth, you know? It seems to me that we should teach people the truth as it is, the way it is may have to correct some of our superstitions or some of our ideas.
But the real question we have to ask is when all the truth is known, do we have a reliable record of the life and teachings of Jesus, which is what I'm looking for? And the answer is yes. And, you know, if I'm looking for more than that, I may sometimes be disappointed with what I find.
But a lot of teachers don't want to, they feel like they're giving up the farm if they say that. They feel like, you know, every word in the Bible is exactly the way the Holy Spirit inspired it. Well, people like that either don't study the Bible very well or they're deceiving people because there are little issues like that in various parts of the Bible.
The question has got to be, does that ruin my faith? Or do I just take that and stress it? Okay, now I know that.
Let's move on and follow Jesus. That would be my approach.
I'm right there, and I thank you for that.
Okay, wait. All right, thank you. Oh, I'm sorry.
I hit the button because I'm moving on, but I'm sorry I missed your last, what you were going on to say. We're almost out of time here. The show is just about to end.
Sharon in Las Vegas, welcome to The Narrow Path.
Hi, Steve. My name is Sharon, and we met you, my son and I, Tom, met you a couple of times in Las Vegas and went on the Alaskan cruise with you.
Oh, I remember. Sure.
Again, your lovely wife, Dana. And I wanted to call because the gentleman that called was going through such misery, and it hurts because I can relate. And then the other lady that was having the problem with, oh, jeez, when the church, she went to the gay wedding, whatever.
What about... I always... My aunt gave me a scripture to Roman date 28.
For all things work together for good, for those who love the Lord and are called according to His purpose. And for the judgmental ones, which I think is... I kind of feel sorry for them.
Or even when I judge myself, because I've been given choices in my life, and I just praise the Lord. And then, I think... And I don't know scripture for it, if it would be...
I think the Lord is making his ends of diamond pearls for him. How do you make a diamond? How do you make a pearl?
It's not real, funny games. It hurts.
That's right. It comes from pain in the oyster and pressure on the coal. So you're right.
You're right about that. I appreciate your input. I'm going to try to get one more call in here from Rand in St. Augustine, Florida.
Hi, Rand. Welcome.
Hello, Steve.
Hi.
Hi, Steve. My question has to do with the baptism of the Holy Spirit with the gift of tongues. I'm 78 now, but when I was in my 20s, I received a baptism with the gift of speaking in tongues.
And at that time, I went to a church that they practiced pretty orderly, the gift of speaking in tongues and interpretation. But I never spoke in that regard. My gift, I use as prayer language.
But a lot happened at that time, and I fell away. The last 15 years I've come back. I have read all of your literature on tongues and how that is overemphasized quite frequently.
But in my particular case, I use tongues as a prayer language. And when I'm out of words, when I don't know how to express myself, or I don't know fully the details of what I'm praying for, I speak in tongues and I pray with all of my heart.
How do you respond to that? I say more power to you. I think that's fine.
I think that Paul said that if someone wants to speak in tongues in the church and there's no interpreter, he said, let him speak to himself and to God. So in other words, tongues can be used that way too, to speak just to God, not publicly. So speaking in tongues in the church with an interpretation is not the only use of tongues that Paul acknowledges.
He's mainly focused on that in 1 Corinthians 14 where he talks about church order and protocols. But he says it is, of course, possible, if there's no interpretation, to just use it to pray, just pray in tongues. So I would affirm that that's a biblical thing.
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All right, so that's tonight at 7, and something else every other night. So just want you to know about that before we go to the phone. Our phone lines are full.
So we'll talk first of all to John from East Meadow, New York. John, welcome to The Narrow Path. Thanks for joining us.
Hey Steve, hi. Yeah, I have kind of like a two-part question. When Jesus resurrected, is it true that he only appeared to those at the Quorum Church and as disciples?
And did, whether that's the case or not, did the Pharisees and others eventually go to the tomb and realize that Jesus had resurrected? Did the townspeople understand that eventually?
Right. Well, the Bible indicates that Jesus appeared to quite a lot of people. We don't know all their names, but the impression is that these were people who had been his disciples, with one exception, and that was Jesus' brother James.
James was not a believer before Jesus rose from the dead, but he later became an important person in the church, and apparently God had a plan for him. So in spite of the fact that James, the brother of Jesus, was not a believer, at the time Jesus appeared to him, and that apparently caused him and the other brothers of Jesus to become believers as well, including Jude. So apart from James, I don't know of any other unbelievers that were appeared to him.
Now Paul does say in 1 Corinthians 15, that there was one point where 500 people saw him at one time. He doesn't say where that was, when that was, or who it was. But my impression is that probably happened in Galilee where Jesus had a lot of followers, and he probably was meeting with a gathering of his believers.
So no, he didn't appear to the Pharisees, or he didn't appear to, you know, anyone else, except, of course, Saul of Tarsus on the way to Damascus. That was later. Now, did the Pharisees go and check the empty tomb to see if he was risen?
They probably did. I'm sure at least some of them did. They must have at least sent some agents there to check it out because when the apostles began to teach that Jesus was risen from the dead, that was an annoying and troublesome teaching to the leaders of the Jews.
And so they would gladly have wanted to debunk that, which would be an easy thing to do if they could just go to the tomb and find the body of Jesus. So I'm sure that that was one of the first things they did. You know, when they heard that Jesus rose from the dead, in all likelihood, someone was sent from them to go and check and make sure that the tomb didn't have the body in it.
Because if it did, that would be very advantageous to them in wanting to debunk the teaching of the disciples. So we have to assume that, you know, they did check the tomb. Now, there is a record in Matthew that the guards at the tomb went and reported what had happened to the chief priests.
And the chief priests paid them off to claim that they had fallen asleep and that the disciples had stolen the body. And Matthew says, and that is the rumor that continues among the Jews to this day, meaning by the time Matthew wrote this, that rumor is still around among the Jews. So they apparently, even if they found the body not there, they didn't give up the faith and become Christians, they instead they made up a story that the disciples had stolen the body.
Which was not a very realistic story, because we have no reason to believe the disciples had an interest in stealing the body. The disciples had become despondent. They weren't interested in starting a religion.
They wanted to go back to fishing. And if they did want to steal the body, which would be a strange thing to want to do, how could they pull it off when there were guards at the tomb and so forth? So I think the story that the disciples stole the body never did really ring true, but it worked for people who wanted to remain doubters, I would say.
Okay.
Thank you very much, Steve.
Have a good night. All right. All right.
God bless you. Okay. Our next caller is Eddie from Dearborn, Michigan.
Hi, Eddie. Welcome.
Hey, Steve. How are you? I hope you're doing well.
Okay. So Steve, I don't want to speak for a long time, so I'm going to ask you my question and then get off the phone. And I want to share your audience a lot of maybe grief.
I recently went through a lot of hardship and turmoil, a lot of suffering. I've heard you say that just like David in the Old Testament, how he counted the numbers, just like how God was angry with Pharaoh, that the Lord was already angry with them to begin with. Hence, this is the reason why he blinded their eyes.
And I've also heard you say that the Lord has glory, will receive glory by our suffering. I'm suffering a lot, Steve. Is the Lord receiving glory by this?
Because it's at my expense. And at my expense, I am down and out all day. I just don't know how to continue on with life.
Right. So you read in the Bible that when we suffer, God can be glorified in it. And you're suffering.
And so you wonder if God is being glorified. Well, God is not automatically glorified in our suffering. But our suffering is an opportunity to glorify God.
And what that means is if we respond to our sufferings, trusting God, He gives us grace in those sufferings. And therefore, we are strengthened in those sufferings. And God is glorified in that.
Because everybody experiences sufferings. You don't have to be a Christian to experience sufferings. The world is full of sufferings.
And most people are just Christians. It just makes the Lord look like a sadist.
I'm sorry to interrupt. It just makes him look like a sadist to others that maybe are hearing it. And was he already mad at me before?
Wait, wait, wait.
Why would it make God look like a sadist? Why would it make God look like a sadist? What caused your problems?
How is your suffering? Is your suffering caused by sickness?
I know that it caused me. Yes, me.
Yes.
OK, then how does that make God look bad if you're causing your own sufferings?
It leads to him going through and approving the decision of Satan to attack me, perhaps, just like he did with Job.
Well, God allows the devil to test everybody, not just you. Everyone's tests are a different kind, but God is not a sadist by testing us. Just like a professor in a university is not a sadist when he gives exams to his students.
The idea is hoping they will pass them. They might not. They should.
But he hopes they will pass them. And so God gives us that opportunity to glorify him in sufferings and to learn and to gain from it. And Paul said that our light affliction, which is but for a moment, works for us a far more exceeding an eternal weight of glory.
While we don't look at the things that are seen, but the things are not seen. So in our sufferings, we set our eyes not on the things that are seen, but on the things that are not seen, which is of course God and his purposes and his grace. Those things that are not seen are the things that cause our present sufferings to work for us an eternal weight of glory.
Now, we would suffer whether God had any role in it or not. I mean, we bring suffering on ourselves. God didn't bring suffering into the world, man did.
And the question is whether God allows us to suffer. You notice whether he lets influences that would cause suffering or not, whether he lets them come or doesn't let them come. Well, he's under no obligation to stop them.
Where's my way out? He's supposed to give me a way out. I'm supposed to be his.
Where's my way out? How much longer do I have to suffer?
Well, of course, I can't answer how long you have to suffer or what your way out is. Your way out is into the arms of Christ. That doesn't mean you're not going to suffer.
You might suffer every day of your life. There's many people who do. The Apostle Paul certainly did.
He was beaten, he was imprisoned, he was shipwrecked, he had stripes innumerable from beatings and so forth. And he suffered a lot. And I don't think he ever got out of his sufferings until he was beheaded and went to be with Jesus.
So when Paul wrote Philippians, he was in a third world jail, pretty miserable. And he said, hey, I'm eager to depart from here and be with Christ. Yeah, that's kind of you kind of feel that even more when you're suffering than when you're not.
So our escape from suffering is not in this world necessarily, though God sometimes in this life does give us periods of relief. But none is guaranteed. This world is not a place of enjoyment.
It's a place of testing. It's a place of preparing. It's where we're being vetted to reign with Christ in another world at another time.
So when do you get out of it? I'd say when you die. Now, the sufferings you're going through right now, I don't know what they are, but they may be temporary.
They may go away at some point. You may be delivered from them or not. I have friends who are in chronic pain.
They're in excruciating pain all the time, day and night, for years. And I'm sure they're thinking, you know, when can I get out of this? And you know, we don't know.
When God wants you to get out of this, when you know. The thing is, it's hard to be, you know, not thinking about yourself when you're in great pain. Obviously, when you're in great pain, it's hard not to think about relief.
But that's true whether you're a Christian or not. The Christian's life is supposed to be different than a non-Christian because we have God. We trust God.
We believe that nothing is going to happen to us. That can destroy us if we're trusting him. And that nothing that he allows to happen to us will harm us in any way that he can't make some good come from it, that makes it worthwhile.
And so again, I don't have any idea of what form of suffering you're going through. But obviously, I also can't predict when whatever suffering you're going through may be relieved, if at all. But we're told to be strong and of good courage and to fight like a man.
And what we're fighting against is the temptation to cave in, the temptation to lose faith, the temptation to compromise because we're disappointed with God, because he's letting us go through stuff and not removing it from us. The Apostle Paul had a thorn in the flesh, which apparently agonized him all the time. It was excruciating and apparently for years.
And he prayed three times that Christ would take it away. And Jesus said, No, my grace is sufficient for you. My strength is made perfect in your suffering.
Now, that would be true of you or anybody who's a believer in Christ, that God gives grace as needed, as we trust him. Now, will we trust him? That's kind of up to us.
And so how you'll come out is whether God will be glorified in this suffering of yours, or whether it'll be wasted suffering and nothing comes of it. That's kind of up to you to decide if you can trust God, you're going to glorify God in the fire. That's up to you.
That's what every Christian has to decide to do. But the Bible does talk about people suffering in vain. Paul said to the Galatians who are about to fall from the faith because they're suffering.
He said, have I endured these things for nothing, in vain? In the prophets, God says, I struck you in vain. You didn't change.
So the issue here is, it's not on God to decide if he's going to be glorified in this. That's on you. You can suffer and not bring glory to God, in which case you suffered for nothing.
But if you suffer and bring glory to God, that's got eternal consequences of value to you and to God and to others. So I just suggest that you listen to my lectures, Making Sense Out of Suffering. If you have listened to them, I'd say listen to them again.
Making Sense Out of Suffering is four lectures at our website, thenarrowpath.com under the tab that says Topical Lectures. Okay, we'll talk to Terrence from Little Rock, Arkansas. Terrence, welcome to The Narrow Path.
Thanks for calling.
Revelation chapter 20 verse 5, But the rest of the dead live not again until the thousand years were finished. Who are the rest of the dead in Revelation chapter 20 verse 5?
Who are the rest of the dead who don't live again until after a thousand years are finished? The answer to that question depends on how you understand what that thousand years is and when it is. If it is talking about a future millennium, as many people believe, that begins when Jesus returns, then the rest of the dead are those who are not part of the first resurrection as it says.
It says he saw the first resurrection. He saw the souls of the saints who were beheaded for Christ, sitting on thrones and reigning with Christ, but the rest of the dead didn't live again until the end of the thousand years. So the way a pre-millennial view holds this is that Jesus comes back at the beginning of the thousand years.
He sets up a thousand year reign on earth, and he has resurrected only the saints, only the believers, and they are reigning with him for a thousand years. But the unbelievers don't get raised from the dead until at the end of the millennium. And you find, of course, at the end of that chapter, the sea gives up the dead, and death and Hades give up the dead, and they're all judged from the things written in the books and so forth.
So if a person takes the thousand years to be a future millennium, the rest of the dead are the people who've died throughout history, who will not be resurrected until the end of that time. But that is in contrast to the ones who have at that time been resurrected, who would be the Christians resurrected at the time Jesus returned. And therefore, the Christians would be reigning with Christ for the thousand years, and the other people who were not Christians would not be raised at all until afterwards.
Now, I'm not a pre-millennialist. I believe that the thousand years is a symbol of the period between the first coming and the second coming of Christ. So the age we're living in, it's symbolizes.
And Jesus bound Satan at his first coming at the cross, and he'll destroy him, as it says in Chapter 20, Verse 9, in flaming fire when he comes back in his second coming. In the meantime, John saw in a vision people in heaven who had died who were Christians, and we know it was dead people because he saw their souls. He said, I saw the souls of those who had been martyred.
Well, their souls would be in their bodies if they weren't dead. He saw their disembodied souls, and that's where they go when they die. So he sees where the martyrs have gone, who have died during this age, and he speaks of this age as the first resurrection.
And those who are the believers are the ones who had the first resurrection, because Jesus said in John 5, 24, he said, He that hears my words and believes in him that sent me has everlasting life and will not come into condemnation because he has passed from death into life. Now, we who are believers have passed from death into life. Jesus said that's a resurrection, but it's a spiritual resurrection.
And so in this present age, believers have experienced a spiritual resurrection. That's we call it being born again, being regenerated. And this is called the first resurrection because we will also experience a physical resurrection later.
For us, it's the first. We have something of a resurrection spiritually now. And when Jesus comes back, we'll have another resurrection.
This will be of our bodies this time. But the unbelievers who don't experience the first resurrection and they die, they don't get raised again until the bodies are raised at the end. That's at the end of the thousand years.
So that's how I understand that. I realize that can be confusing, especially if you've only heard one view, or even if you've heard both views, it still might be confusing. But I have lectures on this, on Revelation 20, at our website, thenarrowpath.com.
If you look under verse by verse lectures, you'll find my lectures through the whole Bible, and there's lectures on Revelation. And you can listen to one on Revelation 20, and you'll hear at least what I think it means. You'll certainly find what other people think it means.
I'm listening to other sources. I appreciate your call, Terrence. Let's talk to Fred from Alameda, California.
Welcome to The Narrow Path, Fred.
Yes, hi.
I had a friend who referred to Judas as Caryat as the son of perdition. And my question is, is this an accurate label, and what exactly does that mean, the son of perdition?
Yeah, it is an accurate label, and Jesus himself used it when he was praying. He said to the father in Chapter 17 of John, he says, all that you've given me, I have lost nothing except the son of perdition. And he's referring to Judas.
Now, the son of perdition is also used in another place in Second Thessalonians 2 in talking about the man of sin. So both of them are said to be sons of perdition. In fact, some people have thought, since Judas is called the son of perdition, and the man of sin is also called that, maybe the man of sin is Judas come back.
Now, I don't believe that, but there are some who've taken that view because of that. But you see, son of perdition is actually not a proper name or title. The word perdition, the Greek word means destruction.
And to say he's a son of destruction, that's a Hebrewism, a Hebrew way of saying, a person is going to be destroyed. A son of some phenomenon in the Hebrew idiom often means somebody who experiences that. We wouldn't talk that way, but we're not the Hebrews and the Bible is written in their language, not ours.
So, son of perdition just means someone who's going to be destroyed, a person who will be destroyed, because perdition means destruction. Now, Judas, of course, was destroyed, and so he was the son of perdition, and so is the man of sin. Now, it might even suggest not only that he's going to be destroyed, but that he's destined to be destroyed.
There might be something more than just the fact of what's going to happen. There may be the insinuation that God has, in a sense, predestined this person for that destruction. And that would be reasonable too, because God has predestined that people who are wicked will be destroyed.
And so, Judas chose to be wicked, so he's in that category. But the term is used as I say two different people, and I don't think that means that the two people are to be identified with each other. I think it's just a phrase that means the one who's destined to be destroyed.
All right, there's a lot of noise on your line, but I hope that helps you. See, Dwight from Denver, Colorado. Welcome to The Narrow Path.
Good to hear from you.
Yes, Steve, are there any verses in the New Testament that tells us that Gentiles are also part of or under the New Covenant?
Well, frankly, yeah, we, Paul said in 1st and 2nd Corinthians 3, that he was a minister of the New Covenant. Now, Paul was an apostle to the Gentiles, and the Corinthians he was writing to were Gentiles. So obviously, he's saying they're part of the New Covenant.
They're the product of his ministry, and he's a minister of the New Covenant. There'd be no reason to distinguish. I realized that Jeremiah said God would make the New Covenant with the House of Israel and the House of Judah.
And so some people think the New Covenant is only for Israel, but that's not taken into account the fact that Israel never was all Jewish. Even in the Old Testament, a Gentile could be part of Israel. And in the New Israel, which is in Christ, there's even more Gentiles than Jews.
Israel, whether in the Old Testament or the New, referred to people who were in the Covenant, people of God, and a Gentile could be in there as much as a Jew. And there were Gentiles in there. I mean, you could be a proselyte, a Gentile who converts to Jesus.
Then you're part of Israel. And it's true now. Jesus made the New Covenant with the remnant of Israel, the disciples.
They were Jewish. But later Gentiles were allowed to come in when they heard about it. And Paul talks about it.
The Gentiles who have had faith have been grafted into the same tree as the Jews who had faith, which is the New Israel. And so God has made the New Covenant with the house of Israel. Though it only applies to the remnant of Israel, the faithful.
And that, of course, the Old Testament suggested that anyway. So yeah, there's Gentiles are part of that remnant now, just as they were part of Israel in the Old Testament. Some of them were.
Not all were. But anyone who was faithful to God was part of Israel through the Covenant. Okay.
Thanks.
All right, Dwight. I appreciate your call.
Bye.
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Welcome back to The Narrow Path Radio Broadcast. My name is Steve Gregg, and we're live for another half hour. Taking your calls, if you have questions about the Bible or about the Christian faith, or you disagree with the host, want to talk about that, feel free to give me a call.
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Mary from Santa Cruz is next. Hi, Mary. Good to hear from you again.
Hi, Steve. I have been listening to your Life of Christ lecture series, and that it's the Christian's prerogative to go by the teachings of Christ, and not by church traditions, or possibly maybe the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. And I want to apply this question as there's a very, very well-known brother, and this is a big controversy, and probably a lot of people know about it.
I don't want to mention his name because it's just going to stir things up. But he received a lot of persecution for advice he gave to a grandmother regarding a wedding.
Oh, yes. I remember the case.
Yes. Well, he encouraged her to go. And when he did this, he did it specifically to her in her circumstance based on compassion and her particular situation.
But he has received horrible persecution, in my opinion.
Still, huh? This happened a while ago, right?
Oh, yes.
I remember it was controversial at the time.
Well, there's just a video from yesterday. A podcaster said that he absolutely has to repent, and he won't. He won't repent of what he did because he said, in another circumstance, I would have given different advice.
And here's the question. I believe this brother should be given the benefit of the doubt, rather than being thrown off all the many stations that he was on. He's a wonderful brother.
Yeah.
And the attitude of the Christians doing this to him, I believe, is not according to the teachings of Christ. What do you say?
Yeah, I think Christians can be a little bit too judgmental. I mean, that's an understatement, obviously. Christians are often too judgmental.
As I understand it, this brother had an older woman, I think her daughter or niece or someone who's getting married in a same-sex marriage. And it was a transgender. A transgender one.
A transgender.
And so I think he had struggles with it. But given the circumstances, and I don't remember what they all were, he judged that the thing that would most glorify God in this particular instance would be for her to accept the invitation. I don't know what other advice he gave her.
He might have said, accept the invitation with these caveats or whatever. Of course, I don't have the details of the situation. But this man is an evangelical leader.
He's a very influential brother. Yes, very influential.
And he's on radio stations all over the place. So he's a wise Bible teacher in general. I don't know that I would have given the same advice.
But if I knew as much about the situation as he does, maybe I would have. I don't know. I don't think any of us are in the position to judge a man for the advice he gave, if he gave it according to a good conscience.
And he's not some kind of a reprobate who's out advising people to do immoral things. I mean, obviously, he's against transgenderism. He's against gay marriage.
I mean, he's an evangelical. He loves the Lord. He teaches the Bible well.
And, you know, maybe he's making a mistake. I don't know if he is or not. But if he is, that's not something to crucify him over.
We have to believe he is making a judgment based on his Christian conscience and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. The Bible, of course, doesn't say anything directly on the subject of going to a wedding of a transgender person. And therefore, the decision to do so or not is going to come from the way that any given Christian who's facing that invitation applies their moral values along with all other Christian considerations and tries to do the thing best in the side of God.
Now, not everyone's going to see it the same way. We might say, what's the obvious?
This was a grandchild of hers, and she couldn't figure out the right thing to do. So, of course, she asked him. And my question is, shouldn't a Christian be allowed to decide something of this nature, a yes or no, based on the exact circumstances that you're in, based on your own spirit and your own feeling of the leading of the Lord, rather than a principle, a general principle of right and wrong?
So these brothers who are condemning him are saying, you can never, ever show any kind of approval of this sort of thing. And it wasn't about her showing approval. It was about showing her grandchild love.
I know. Well, here's what I say. I say there are many things in our society that are sinful, that we as Christians, we can say on principle, we cannot do them.
But when somebody else who's not a Christian does them, the Bible doesn't tell us that we have to do a particular thing, one way or the other. In fact, Paul says in 1 Corinthians 5, that the standards for Christian conduct are for Christians. He says, I wrote you an epistle not to keep company of fornicators and other debauched people, but he said, I didn't mean those in the world because you'd have to leave the world if you weren't going to keep company with fornicators.
If we included those who are in the world, he said, I'm talking about people who call themselves brethren. If a man calls himself a brother and does these things, then don't associate with them. Now, I don't know if her granddaughter calls herself a Christian or not, but I think that in the days of Paul, calling yourself a Christian meant something considerably more than it means in modern Western civilization because a person called himself a Christian because he was part of the fellowship of the saints, you know, part of the unity of the saints and so forth.
Today, anyone can call themselves a Christian and not have any connection with Christianity at all, including Christ. So, I mean, I think what Paul is saying is you don't want the church to seem to be supporting fornication. And therefore, if somebody is a part of the church and they're fornicating, well, then that's what matter for church discipline.
But this isn't even the same kind of question. The girl in question is not the one they're trying to discipline. She's the one doing the bad thing.
You know, the grandma is not doing a bad thing. She can stay home and do nothing, or she can go to the wedding and say nothing, or she can go to the wedding and speak to someone about it and say, I don't care for this. I mean, the Bible doesn't say what to do in those cases.
You do what you feel led to do that you feel is consistent with your convictions. But going to a wedding, you know, I've gone to weddings of people who the person had left their spouse before and married someone else. To my mind, that's not a marriage.
But I didn't feel, I mean, the person's knew how I felt about it. But, you know, going to a wedding doesn't always mean to everybody that you're endorsing it. It should.
I believe that, ideally, going to a wedding is your way of celebrating something you endorse and agree with. But that's not always understood to be the case. So it certainly is not the case that the Bible tells us that going to a wedding, even if it's not a good wedding, is a sin.
Now, even if the person getting married is sinning by getting married, you going to the wedding is not anywhere in the Bible said to be a sin. So I think that church discipline is to be enacted against people who are sinning. Grandma is not sinning if she goes to that wedding.
Now, if she encourages the sin, she says, hey, I hope you guys have a great marriage and it lasts forever. Well, obviously, you can't wish that if you have Christian convictions in such a case, but I don't think she's doing that. So to my mind, this is to try to separate from a minister because he gave what he thought was good advice.
Even if we think that wasn't good advice, that's not good advice. And say he has to repent of that advice. Well, why should he repent if he doesn't believe it was wrong?
Who are you to judge another man's servant, Paul said. Now, if he was sinning himself, well, that'd be a different thing. If the minister is sinning, then there's church discipline.
He's not sinning. Even grandma's not sinning. And he's just talking to grandma.
There's nothing wrong with that. And if he expresses his opinion, how can a man be, how can a godly man be persecuted for expressing his opinion? He believes it's, he believes God would have it.
Anyway, I, yeah, I didn't realize this was still a controversy. I haven't heard much about it lately. But anyway, I'm, I'm on his side, even though I don't believe he, I don't think I would have given the same advice, but maybe, again, I don't know the situation as much as he does.
So it's none of my business. But whether he gave good advice or bad advice, I'm certainly on his side against his critics in this case, because I think it's none of their business. He's not sinning.
He's not doing a sin himself. I agree. Anyway, I appreciate your call, but thanks for the update on that.
It's kind of discouraging. Tony in Orcas Island, Washington. Hi, Tony, welcome.
Oh, hi. Yeah, okay. I've listened to your show for quite a while, the last few years, and really like it.
And I don't know, just a little while back, I think one of your callers mentioned something about, I don't know how to frame it, maybe God doesn't really communicate with us or talk to us or whatever. And I thought, yeah, I wouldn't trust anyone with like, that would say that they have new prophecy from God. But here's the thing that I've experienced.
Let me see, in 1980, I was born again. I was 16. And before that, when I was really little, my mom told me about God and Jesus and sent me to Sunday school.
So I never doubted. Anyway, so over the last several years, every once in a great while, I know it's from God. I am a gardener.
And there was one time to where it was the very end of the day, the owners of the place left, so there was no one there. And I was tired. And I thought, what can I do for the last few minutes just to make it look good?
And I won't hear any complaints. And I go home. So I grabbed a rake and started raking under this big pear tree by their garage.
And that's all I had on my mind. And all of a sudden, it wasn't an out loud voice. It was almost like, I don't know, telepathy or God just kind of like hijacked my thoughts and told me to...
It was the exact words I heard and like very quietly were stepped out into the driveway now. And so I did. And as soon as I looked at my boots on the gravel, I was going to start wondering what it was all about.
Well, I didn't have time. I heard a crack and I looked up in the tree where I had just been standing under and I watched this huge limb break off the tree and sail and hit the ground where I was.
Well, that's tremendous. That's tremendous. I believe...
I mean, if you want to tell me that was God speaking to you, I can accept that. I've never said it. I've never suggested that God doesn't speak to people.
I'm not sure what call you're referring to. I don't even know what the caller was saying because I don't remember the call. But if you thought that there's...
that I hold the position that God doesn't ever speak to people, well, you misunderstand me. I believe God does speak to us. I don't think he does it as often as some people claim.
I think a lot of people say, God said this to me and God told me this, and I think they say that a lot of times when they're really just expressing their strong emotions or feelings. But the fact that people say that God told them things when perhaps he didn't doesn't mean that there's never any times when he did. I personally do believe that God speaks to us, so I appreciate that testimony.
Wade from Willamard, California. Welcome. Yeah.
Hi, Steve.
Hey, good to hear from you.
Yeah. Hey, somebody asked me just the other day here about doing, the Bible is not accurate. They're contradicting itself.
And they were referring to the taking nothing for your journey, neither staff, nor wallet, nor bread, nor money. That was Luke. And then Mark says the opposite.
He says he commanded them that they should take nothing for the journey except a staff only. And then Matt, who on the other hand, doesn't, says also no staff. So I wasn't quite sure how to answer that.
I did read somewhere that there's two types of staff, a short one for defense and a long one for walking. But I was just curious what your thoughts and maybe how I would have answered that.
Yeah, well, that's of course when Jesus was sending out the 12 two by two to visit villages and evangelize and preach the gospel for short term outreach. And he did give instructions about traveling light and don't take money and things like that. But you're right, that is mentioned in two or three of the gospels.
And one of them reads a little differently than the others. I think, as you said, one of them says take a staff, the other says don't take a staff. Well, what we have to assume is that one of those is representing what Jesus said and the other one isn't.
Now, let's just say Jesus said take a staff. And then one of the gospel writers wrote, we find in another gospel, he said, don't take a staff. Did I just say it that way or the other way?
Anyway, obviously, there are times when the gospel writers don't give the same details, but even if they do, it's not always the case that the copyists who copied their writings have copied it correctly. And all the gospels that we have, all the biblical books have come down to us through many copies and textual critics, which are people who study all these different copies to see which ones go back to the original more. They recognize that there are some copyists, that is scribes who made copies of them, who made mistakes.
This is not problematic. This happens every time human beings copy something. I mean, if you have a critic that says, oh, the Bible can't be true because of this difference, just tell him, why don't you take a few hours and just copy out the Book of Luke by hand yourself?
And then when you're done, see if you made any typos, see if you made any mistakes. If you did, then you're about normal. And the people who copied the gospel for us were about normal in that respect.
So as human beings, they did make mistakes, which means that the manuscripts have come down to us, in some cases, containing these small mistakes. Now, someone says, well, if there's mistakes in the manuscripts, how can we trust the Bible? Well, let's not over exaggerate this.
It doesn't matter to me whether Jesus told them to take a staff or not take a staff on that occasion. It really doesn't make any difference in my life. It doesn't make any difference in my belief in Christ.
It doesn't make any belief difference in my understanding of Christian duty. In other words, if a copyist has made a small error, and it's 100 percent inconsequential, then to make an issue of it is just to be anal. More anal than is reasonable, you know?
I'm willing to believe that one of those accounts, in disagreement with another of them, may represent what we call a scribal error, of which plenty of them exist. But the great thing about this is that the textual critics who have spent their whole lives studying these manuscripts have said, these textual variations that are made by scribes, they never affect any major issues, you know. It's like a lot of times it would be that they misspelled a word, or in writing a sentence, they put the words in a different order but didn't change the meaning.
In some cases, they leave out a word by accident. But in many cases, most cases you can tell where they left out a word because it doesn't make as much sense without that word or whatever. I mean, there is such a thing as being a Bible student and scholar that you study these things.
If a person is not serious about the word of God, God doesn't owe it to that person to yield a deep understanding of it. But people who are serious students soon find out that the little mistakes that scribal heirs have made, they don't really have any impact. There's no doctrine of scripture that is adversely affected by some questionable scribal variant.
So, I'm willing to believe that the manuscripts as we have them do contain a contradiction there. And it's not the only case. There's lots of cases.
But I'm willing also to say that doesn't mean that any of the gospel writers made that mistake. I mean, it's possible they all wrote exactly the same thing, but one of them, in the course of being copied, a scribe put a different word in or left a word out, in which case it came down to us to this day with a change in it. That's not a problem with the original author.
That's a problem with the process of what we call transmission of the manuscripts. So people sometimes think that we Christians believe the Bible is a magical book, that it kind of fell down from heaven between leather covers in King James English or something. And therefore, if you find anything like that, that's a problem.
Well, that just disproves the Christian view. It's obvious that this is not magical. It's got all the errors that a book written by humans would have.
Well, that's just it. It was written by humans. And it was not only read by humans, it was copied by humans.
And so, you know, if a person is looking for a magic book, the Bible is not the place to look for one. It's not. It contains what the New Testament contains is historical records of the life of Jesus Christ and of the apostles in the Book of Acts.
And then it's got letters written by apostles to various churches. And if you take it as anything other than that, you're taking it as more than it claims to be. And you're setting up yourself up for stumbling blocks that are unnecessary.
So I will say this, that when I teach that passage, I have to say, well, there's a difference here between these two Gospels. One says they were to take staffs, the other says they're not. So somewhere along the line, one of these things got copied wrong, but it doesn't matter.
You know, I don't care if they took a staff or if they didn't take a staff. You know, when I read the Bible, I'm getting trying to get to know God. I'm trying to get to know Jesus.
And I'm especially trying to get to know what my duties are, what pleases him and what he wants me to do and not to do. That's the purpose of studying the scripture. And little things like that have zero impact on what I'm looking for in the Bible.
If I'm looking for a magic book, yeah, they'd have an impact. But I've already given up that idea.
Yeah. Okay. That's pretty much how I took it to and after I reflected on it.
But when they asked me, I had not even, I didn't even know about the discrepancy. It's really Mark with Matthew and Luke. And I thought I'd just listen to how to answer it.
And then later I read about it and said, well, I was sure I would like to hear Steve's... Yeah.
Well, there's a lot of teachers that are more reluctant than I am to admit that there are these kinds of issues in the Bible. But I've been studying the Bible for 55 years. You can't ignore these things.
And why pretend? I mean, if you're trying to hide something from people, how are you teaching them the truth, you know? It seems to me that we should teach people the truth as it is, the way it is may have to correct some of our superstitions or some of our ideas.
But the real question we have to ask is when all the truth is known, do we have a reliable record of the life and teachings of Jesus, which is what I'm looking for? And the answer is yes. And, you know, if I'm looking for more than that, I may sometimes be disappointed with what I find.
But a lot of teachers don't want to, they feel like they're giving up the farm if they say that. They feel like, you know, every word in the Bible is exactly the way the Holy Spirit inspired it. Well, people like that either don't study the Bible very well or they're deceiving people because there are little issues like that in various parts of the Bible.
The question has got to be, does that ruin my faith? Or do I just take that and stress it? Okay, now I know that.
Let's move on and follow Jesus. That would be my approach.
I'm right there, and I thank you for that.
Okay, wait. All right, thank you. Oh, I'm sorry.
I hit the button because I'm moving on, but I'm sorry I missed your last, what you were going on to say. We're almost out of time here. The show is just about to end.
Sharon in Las Vegas, welcome to The Narrow Path.
Hi, Steve. My name is Sharon, and we met you, my son and I, Tom, met you a couple of times in Las Vegas and went on the Alaskan cruise with you.
Oh, I remember. Sure.
Again, your lovely wife, Dana. And I wanted to call because the gentleman that called was going through such misery, and it hurts because I can relate. And then the other lady that was having the problem with, oh, jeez, when the church, she went to the gay wedding, whatever.
What about... I always... My aunt gave me a scripture to Roman date 28.
For all things work together for good, for those who love the Lord and are called according to His purpose. And for the judgmental ones, which I think is... I kind of feel sorry for them.
Or even when I judge myself, because I've been given choices in my life, and I just praise the Lord. And then, I think... And I don't know scripture for it, if it would be...
I think the Lord is making his ends of diamond pearls for him. How do you make a diamond? How do you make a pearl?
It's not real, funny games. It hurts.
That's right. It comes from pain in the oyster and pressure on the coal. So you're right.
You're right about that. I appreciate your input. I'm going to try to get one more call in here from Rand in St. Augustine, Florida.
Hi, Rand. Welcome.
Hello, Steve.
Hi.
Hi, Steve. My question has to do with the baptism of the Holy Spirit with the gift of tongues. I'm 78 now, but when I was in my 20s, I received a baptism with the gift of speaking in tongues.
And at that time, I went to a church that they practiced pretty orderly, the gift of speaking in tongues and interpretation. But I never spoke in that regard. My gift, I use as prayer language.
But a lot happened at that time, and I fell away. The last 15 years I've come back. I have read all of your literature on tongues and how that is overemphasized quite frequently.
But in my particular case, I use tongues as a prayer language. And when I'm out of words, when I don't know how to express myself, or I don't know fully the details of what I'm praying for, I speak in tongues and I pray with all of my heart.
How do you respond to that? I say more power to you. I think that's fine.
I think that Paul said that if someone wants to speak in tongues in the church and there's no interpreter, he said, let him speak to himself and to God. So in other words, tongues can be used that way too, to speak just to God, not publicly. So speaking in tongues in the church with an interpretation is not the only use of tongues that Paul acknowledges.
He's mainly focused on that in 1 Corinthians 14 where he talks about church order and protocols. But he says it is, of course, possible, if there's no interpretation, to just use it to pray, just pray in tongues. So I would affirm that that's a biblical thing.
I appreciate your call, brother, we're out of time. You've been listening to The Narrow Path Radio Broadcast. My name is Steve Gregg.
Our website is thenarrowpath.com. Check it out. All kinds of free resources.
You can also donate if you want at thenarrowpath.com. We're out of time, so let's talk again tomorrow. God bless.
Sermon Overview
Scripture Reference: Philippians 4:4-8
Adrian Rogers says, “You can choose your thoughts like you choose your friends.”
As Christians, we must have a standard regarding the kinds of thoughts we allow into our minds. Scripture shows us how and why we should control our thought lives.
Philippians 4:4-7 says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice! Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”
Every Christian who is in control of his thoughts will have conscious, contagious joy in the Lord.
We will obtain healthy mental attitudes when we remember God is near, and we will recognize His presence continually.
We must refuse to worry about anything; Jesus Himself tells us that worrying is worthless, wasteful, and wicked. (See Matthew 6.) Instead, we must bring every need to God—all the while, developing thankful spirits.
Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things.”
This verse reveals exactly how we should screen our thoughts and what to admit into our minds:
1, Reliance Test: Is it true? Does it come from a reliable source?
2, Respect Test: Is it honest, honorable, and worthy of respect?
3. Rightness Test: Is it straight-line thinking or is it crooked thinking?
4. Reverence Test: Is it pure, free of contamination, worthy of being lifted up in worship?
5. Relationship Test: Does it cause you to love rather than criticize?
6. Refinement Test: Is it a good report, high-toned, refined, and beneficial?
We can win the war on our minds and control our thoughts, but it will not happen if we stay neutral. We must be intentional about thinking what is good. We will not overcome evil with anything other than what is good.
Apply it to your life
There is a correct standard for the thoughts we allow into our minds. Do you think about what is true, noble, just, pure, lovely, or of good report? Be intentional today, as you meditate on what is good.
Listen closely as Adrian Rogers helps us put our thoughts into perspective.
Do you have anything that you really think is a big problem? I want you to think about the biggest problem in your life right now, got it in your mind? All right, now, double it, make it twice as big.
Now, I want to ask you a question, is that big to God? See it in the light of God.
Welcome to Love Worth Finding. Pastor, teacher and author Adrian Rogers said, You can choose your thoughts like you choose your friends. As Christians, we need to have a standard of what kind of thoughts we allow into our minds.
The believer who's in control of his or her thoughts will have conscious, contagious joy in the Lord. On the contrary, the believer whose thoughts run wild will find themselves worrying. If you have your Bible, turn to Philippians chapter 4 as Adrian Rogers gives practical insights on how to control your thought life.
Find in God's Word, please, Philippians chapter 4. And in a few moments, we're going to begin reading in verse 4. They put on cigarette packages that smoking may be hazardous to your health.
I want to tell you, dear friend, that wrong thinking can also be hazardous to your health. And we're going to find out if you have been guilty of bad thinking, the wrong kind of thoughts, depression, self-pity, worry, fear, anger, and all of these many things. You say, well, preacher, what do you know about it anyway?
I mean, you've always had it easy all your life. You've never had any problems, so who are you to tell me about these things? Well, the truth of the matter is, I want to tell you what someone else said.
His name was Paul, and what he wrote, he wrote in a slimy hole called the Mammartine Prison as a sufferer and a prisoner for preaching the gospel of Jesus Christ, okay? Now, I want you to hear what the Apostle Paul had to say, and I began in verse 4. Rejoice in the Lord always.
Who said that? Paul. When did he say it?
In prison. Rejoice in the Lord always. And again, I say rejoice.
Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand. Be careful for nothing.
That is, don't worry about a single thing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your request be made known unto God, and the peace of God which passeth all understanding shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Now remember, we're talking about controlling your thought life. The peace of God which passeth all understanding shall keep, and the word keep means guard, shall guard your thoughts, your hearts, your minds through Christ Jesus.
Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report, if there be any virtue, if there be any praise, think on these things. Now the Bible says, as a man thinketh, so is he. And I want to show you today how to guard your thought life.
An unsaved man has a blinded mind. The God of this world has blinded the minds of them that believe not. By nature, we have what the Bible calls a carnal mind that is at warfare with God.
And so we said in order to control your thought life, first of all, what? The carnal mind must be converted. But then we showed you also that a converted mind may be corrupted.
Paul said, I have a concern, lest Satan corrupt you through his subtlety from the simplicity which is in Christ, that your minds be corrupted. And Satan can come in and seduce us, and even a Christian's mind can be drawn away. And Satan can build into that heart and into that mind what the Bible calls a stronghold.
And so we said then that a corrupted mind must be conquered. You must take that ground back. And we showed you how to do that.
And then we said that a conquered mind must be controlled. That the Lord is to be in charge of our new mind. And that I said, and I hope you will remember, that you can choose your thoughts like you choose your friends.
Now, you have to have some sort of a standard to know what kind of thoughts that you can allow into your mind and what kind of thoughts you can say no trespassing to. But Paul, when he's getting ready to give this standard, first of all, he just builds sort of a context in which you can do what I'm talking about. And let me give you three or four things that he says just to set the stage.
He says first of all in verse 4, that you're to find your joy in the Lord. Now, he doesn't say rejoice always. That would be silly if he just said that.
But it's not silly when he says rejoice in the Lord always. Rejoice in the Lord, find your joy in the Lord. Every Christian who is controlling his thought life will have a conscious joy, he'll have a continual joy, and he will have a conspicuous joy, and he'll have a contagious joy if he finds his joy in the Lord.
Did you know that I stay busy, but I have found the secret of strength? I really have. The joy of the Lord is my strength.
Really. That's not a slogan, it's not a song, it is a downright reality. There are times when I leave my office to come up here to preach, and I find my body getting weary, and I find my mind getting tired, and I just stop, and I say, Jesus, I love you.
I thank you for who you are, and what you mean to me, and I'll quote this verse. The joy of the Lord is my strength. And folks, I feel power and strength that comes into my mortal body.
The joy of the Lord is my strength. You see, we're to rejoice in the Lord. Jesus said in John 15 verse 11, These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.
By the way, it's only joy in him that remains. If you get your joy in the other place, something can take it away. I'm glad Paul didn't get his joy in his freedom, because if he got his joy in his freedom, he wouldn't have had it when he was in prison.
Don't get your joy out of circumstance. Don't get your joy out of amusements. Don't get your joy out of business.
Don't get your joy out of your friends. Don't get your joy out of your health only. Those things can give you joy well and good, but don't let them be the ultimate source of your joy.
Rejoice in the Lord always. Joy in him is full, and it is complete. Now the second thing, we're just setting the stage now.
Find your joy in the Lord, okay? We're talking about how to have a healthy mental attitude. Secondly, always remember that God is near.
Always remember that God is near. Recognize his presence continually. Look if you will in verse 5 now.
Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand. Now he doesn't mean that Jesus is coming soon.
He is coming soon, but that's not what he meant by that. What he meant by that is, hey, he's right here with me in this prison cell. The Lord is at hand.
Jesus said, I will pray the Father, and he will give you another comforter that he may abide with you forever. And the way to have a healthy mental attitude is to find your joy in the Lord and to constantly practice the presence of the Lord. You see, when you can do this, then the wonderful thing about it is that your problems are his problems.
Paul said, I'm here in prison, but so is the Lord. Jesus didn't come to get you out of trouble. He came to get into trouble with you.
Isn't that wonderful? And Paul said, well, I'm in prison, but he's in here too. The Lord's right here with me.
And I was reading about some prisoners who, back in Stalin's day, when they were really persecuting Christians and putting them to death, there were 30 Christians who were meeting in a building. And Stalin's crash troops came in there to persecute these Christians, and they were making a list and they counted them. And one of the officers said, one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, there are 30 in this room.
And one of them smoked up and said, no, you're wrong, there are 31. Jesus is here with us. Jesus is here with us.
All right, now, the third thing, first of all, just find your joy in the Lord. Secondly, recognize his constant presence. Thirdly, just refuse to worry about anything.
Look in verse six, be careful for nothing. Now this word careful here, the Greek word means to be pulled apart. That's exactly what worry does.
Worry just pulls you apart. Over here is fear and over here is hope and you're just being pulled between the two. Paul says, hey, don't worry about anything.
You know what Jesus said about worry? Jesus said it's worthless. No one can add a cubit to a stature by worry.
Worry never solved a problem, lifted a burden, dried a tear. It's worthless, but not only is it worthless, it's wasteful. You know, it just takes energy.
That doesn't do any good. If it's worthless, it's bound to be wasteful. Worry doesn't take the sorrow out of tomorrow.
It takes the strength out of today. It's just pulling tomorrow's clouds over today's sunshine. But not only is it worthless and is it wasteful, it's wicked.
Jesus said, after these things, do the Gentiles seek. These are the things that pagans think about. Why, don't be like them.
God watches over. So Paul here, he's getting ready now to tell us how to guard our thought life, but he's just setting the stage and he's just giving us an atmosphere. Just find your joy in the Lord.
Recognize that He's present with you. Refuse to worry about a single thing. You say, well, how do you do that?
Well, he goes on to tell us how to do that. In verse 6, be careful for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your request be made known unto God. Bring every need to God in prayer.
Every need. Now, surely we ought to pray about the big things. Do you have anything that you really think is a big problem?
I want you to think about the biggest problem you can think of right now. I mean the absolute bigness. You got the biggest problem in your life right now?
Got it in your mind? All right, now double it. Make it twice as big.
Now is it in your mind? Now I want to ask you a question. Is that big to God?
See it in the light of God. The Lord says, I'm the Lord. Is there anything too hard for me?
Well, surely then, you can pray about the big things. What about the little things? You know, the danger is not that we fail to pray about the big things.
The danger is that we fail to pray about the little things. He says, in everything, by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. All right, now next.
Not only bring every need to God, verse 6, but develop a thankful spirit. All of this is just getting you ready now to check these thoughts at the door, whether or not you're going to let them into your heart and in your mind. Just a thankful spirit.
Notice again, be careful for nothing but in everything, pray about everything and thank God for everything. With thanksgiving, let your requests be made known unto God. You know, sometimes we complain when we ought not to complain.
I was sitting in an automobile with a man. We were driving across country and I had all of my children. We're in private school, somewhere in college and somewhere in Christian school.
And well, we, Joyce and I were just paying out the money. I was dying of maltuition. And I, I was complaining a little bit to this man, and I was talking to him about the great cost of sending a son to college.
And he looked at me. He'd said, I'd give anything in the world if my son would go to college. I thought, oh, what an ungrateful spirit I had.
He had a son that was rebellious, and a son that was a hellion and a maverick. You ever complain about dirty dishes? You know, there are lots of folks in Bangladesh who'd like to have some dirty dishes.
Did you know that? I mean, the dirty dishes are a sign that you've had something to eat. Listen, in everything, by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known unto God.
Now, all of that, he just sets the stage now to tell you how to guard your thought life. Kind of like going to the airport and you have to pass through that security gate, and that security gate has a sensor on it, and there's certain things that are contraband. There's certain things that you're not to let through.
Now, the Apostle Paul also gives us a checklist, and I want you to look at them right now in verse 8, and we'll get right into the heart of the message. Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things have a good report. If there be any virtue, if there be any praise, think on these things.
All right, now here are the tests as to whether or not you will admit anything into your mind. First of all, is what I want to call the reliance test. The reliance test.
Is it true? Can you bank on it? Can you rely on it?
Whatsoever things are true. Do you know that we live in a generation today that doesn't ask, is it true? We ask, does it work?
Don't let anything come in to your thought life, consciously dwell there. Don't absorb it into your heart, into your philosophy. Don't dwell on it.
Don't let it be a part of your thought patterns if it is not true. And of course, the Bible is the prime source of truth. Now, secondly, not only the reliance test, but the respect test.
Second question, is it honest? Whatsoever things are true. And then he says, whatsoever things are honest.
Now, the word honest here literally means honorable. Things that are honorable. Do you let dishonorable things get into your mind?
Are there things that are not really worthy of your respect? Things that are not worthy to occupy your time? Some things are not bad because they're vile.
They're bad because they are inane. Just silly, stupid, and not worth it. All right, here's the third thing.
Not only the reliance test, and not only the respect test, but the rightness test. Whatsoever things are just. And the word just here means straight, as opposed to crooked.
Don't let any crooked thinking come into your mind. Do you think straight? Do you think on a straight line?
In my Bible study and in my preaching and in my devotional life, I try to think in a straight line. I think many of us let things that are crooked come in. We don't lay down a measuring rod by what we do.
We just kind of go this way and that way a little bit. Now, Paul says that there are certain things that are not to get through the gate. Anything that is unreliable, disrespectful or not right should not come through the gate.
The rightness test. Is it right? Now, here's one.
He mentions also whatsoever things are pure. Now, the word pure here means free of contamination. And what it was used for was to say, is this animal or is this object, is it good enough, is it pure enough to be used in worship?
That is, could it be offered to God? So, the next test is what I call the reverence test, whatsoever things are pure. That is, is this something that I would not be ashamed to offer to the Lord?
Could I take this story? Could I take this movie? Could I take this friendship?
And could I say, Lord, I worship you with it? Well, you say, you're not supposed to worship God with everything. Oh, no.
You are supposed to worship God with everything. The Bible says, whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. Is this relationship a relationship I could say, Lord, I offer it to you?
I just offer it to you. Just this good time, just this joy, just this beauty. I offer it, Lord, to you.
It is pure. It is worthy. Anything that you're doing that cannot pass the reverence test, that is, that you could not offer up to God any relationship, any activity, any meal, any recreation, any business deal.
Don't let it in to your mind. And then, next of all, the relationship test. He says, whatsoever things are lovely.
Now, the word lovely here doesn't mean beautiful, but it literally means in the Greek language, causing you to love. Does it cause you to love? If there's something that comes into your mind that causes you to criticize unjustly, or brings division between human beings, it is wrong.
This word lovely is a combination of two words which actually means toward love. Toward love. Does this thought move you to love?
The relationship test. And then finally, the refinement test. Look, if you will, here as he goes on to say, whatsoever things are lovely, and then whatsoever things are of good report.
Actually, this word means things that are high-toned. High-toned. That means that it sounds good.
It is refined. You know, I think gossip is a form of insanity. Really.
I'll tell you why I think it's a form of insanity. I've never met a gossip who knew they were gossip.
And this is what they say. They say, you know me, I don't gossip. And then they start to gossip.
Well, if a person is doing something, they don't know they're doing it. I think they must have rooms to rent upstairs, unfurnished. It's a form of insanity.
They love to listen to things that are not of good report. People use their ears for garbage cans. They say, you know, I don't know why people always come and tell me these things.
I know why they tell you those things. They know you want to hear them. They know that you will allow them to track mud on the carpet of your mind.
They know that. And if you're one who has all the latest news about everything, you know those kind of folks. I mean, buddy, if it's bad, they've got it.
I mean, it just comes to them. And, you know, they say, well, you know, I don't start all these rumors, just the ones I tell them to. They're the ones that start them.
But the refinement test, these are things that you ought to put up at the gate of your mind and do not allow them to come in. Now, Paul is finally, he's running out of time. He's already said finally, like some preachers, but he doesn't mean immediately.
And so, and then he just, he just kind of wraps it up. And he says, if there be any virtue, if there be any praise, think on these things. Now folks, it is so simple and it is so wonderful.
You can absolutely take back that conquered ground and you can say, I'm only gonna let these thoughts in my mind. And you don't have to think on anything you don't want to think on. But now listen, you must be thinking something.
You cannot control your thought life by keeping your mind in neutral. You will think something and if you're not thinking something right, you're gonna think something wrong. If you're not thinking something good, you're gonna think something bad.
And the way not to think bad thoughts is not by trying not to think bad thoughts. Try not to think of a submarine right now.
Are you sure you're not thinking about a submarine right now? All right. The only way not to think about a submarine is not by trying not to think about a submarine, but by thinking about something else.
And people who are trying not to think about submarines are thinking about the submarines they're trying not to think about, isn't that right? Sure. You see, the Bible says, be not overcome with evil, but overcome evil with good.
Just let these thoughts come in to your mind, and just keep your hearts and minds stayed on him. Thou will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee. We have the mind of Christ.
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Our sovereign Lord often uses our deepest disappointments to prepare us for serving others.
welcome to the In Touch Podcast with Charles Stanley for Wednesday, September twenty-fifth. If you are trying to escape your problems, today's podcast helps you change your perspective and begin to look for God's purpose in them. The series on the ways of God continues.
Well, this is the series on the ways of God. And we've been talking about. His ways, what motivates.
Him. Why does. He do what.
He does? Why does. He act the way.
He acts? Why does. He respond the way.
He responds? What motivates. Him?
And so, in this message today, something all of us have to deal with in our life. All of us have to deal with suffering of some kind, whether it's emotional or whether it's physical, mental or whatever it might be. And so, when we think about the ways of God, today the title of this message is simply this, the ways of God, He uses our suffering.
It's one of. His ways. And what I want us to understand is I want us to understand why God allows us to suffer the length of time.
He does oftentimes, or whether it's a short period of time. What is. He up to?
What's He thinking? So, I certainly hope you'll be wise enough to write these down. There are quite a number of them.
The reasons God allows us to suffer. And the first one I want to mention is this, and that is to manifest Christ's life and character in us. That is, to reveal.
His character within us. So, think about what a Christian is. A Christian is a person who has received Jesus Christ as their personal Savior, and one in whom and through whom Jesus Christ is living.
His life. So that the greatest testimony to a lost person is a believer who's living a godly life. And so that you and I are to, listen, are to be living examples by character, conversation, and conduct, of the person of Jesus Christ.
That's what he's maturing us. He's taken out that stuff that doesn't belong there. He's adding what belongs there in order that you and I would be a living example so that somebody who meets you will meet the Son of God who lives in you.
So he allows suffering. Suffering is that sanding and sifting and pruning. And listen, one thing that gets our attention is pain.
And God knows, watch this, He makes no mistake. He makes no mistake when. He allows pain in our life.
He never allows too much. He knows exactly when, where, how, and what method, and by means of bringing pain into our life. But He always has a purpose for it.
And what does. He want? Listen, since.
He's not here, He has you and me to live. His life through us, each and every one of us. You receive Jesus Christ as your personal Savior.
Jesus Christ is living within you. His desire is what? It's that pruning, sifting, sanding, dealing with all the things within us that make us look like anything other than.
Him. And you mark this down, that purity and power go together. There would be absolutely no power in your life as a believer if the heart is impure.
They just don't match. It's like oil and water. You put them in a pan, you can see the oil all comes together here and water's over here.
Purity and power, that's why every man of God who stands in the pulpit must major on a pure heart, an obedient heart. Or it's just simple words that are floating out there somewhere. A pure heart is, listen, is the will of God, the desire of God, and an essential way we think.
And so, He sends suffering into our life to purify us. That's the will and purpose of God. And people who desire to hold on to and say, Well, you know, you can't tell me what to do and what to watch.
No, I can. I can tell you this, that the whole time you are living an impure life, I can tell you what's going on inside of you. There's a civil war goes on when the heart's impure.
And so, He's going to send enough suffering to do what? Enough suffering to show us, to reveal to us, what's there that needs to go. People wonder, well, why do they suffer?
Just stop and ask a question, is my heart pure? And you see, think about this. You may not be sick, but there's no contentment.
And when you're not contented in your life, there's something missing, something awesome. Here's what contentment says. Contentment says, I am delighted in my relationship to God.
I'm delighted in my circumstance. I may not like it, but somehow, I know that God is up to something good. You are never free until your heart's pure.
Never free till your will is surrendered. And so, what God wants, because. He loves us, He wants the best for us.
And so, one of the reasons. He sends suffering, pure Father heart. Another reason is this.
He says in Hebrews also, in that twelfth chapter, that we could share in the holiness of Christ. Now, what does that mean? Simply this, God's goal for us is to be like Jesus.
God's goal for us is to have a pure heart. That is to share in the holiness of Jesus. How could I share in.
His holiness when I have sinned against God? And so, we sort of try to explain it away like that. But listen to what.
He says. He says, speaking of the way we were disciplined, they disciplined us for a short time, which seemed best to them. But He that is God disciplines us for our good, so that we may share.
His holiness. What does that mean? And you see, when you talk about holy, people say, there's only one person who's holy and that's God.
So, what we do, we explain away and rationalize our lack of holiness. Jesus Christ is living in the life of every believer. Jesus Christ is the holy Son of God, the holiness of Jesus Christ within us.
Listen, it's there. It can either be muffled, suppressed, ignored, denied, or that holiness can express itself. And so, His desire is that you and I would share in the holiness of Christ, that we would be godly men and women.
And you see, to talk about being godly is so foreign to the society in which you and I live. Because this is a sinful, wicked, vile, lustful, greedy society we live in. And Christians can be just as greedy as the lost people.
When it comes to money, anything goes. Godly people make a difference. And it is the holiness, listen, it is the holiness of the Son of God that.
He wants to express through us. Then what happens? Listen, when your life is holy, your conversation, your conduct, and your character is holy, you, listen, you don't have to say anything.
You will make an impact in people's lives. Things will be different. And you can go through difficulty, hardship, and pain.
And when you recognize that God is doing what? He is expressing something within you so that the holiness of your heart will be like headlamps on the automobile, shining into the darkness and shining through the darkness. And other people can see the light, not to brag on you, but they just see in you something that deep down inside, they wish that they had.
Well, when I think about all the ways that. He expresses and the reasons. He expresses and what.
He's got in mind, He has some awesome things in mind. And one of those is simply this. He wants to teach us to give thanks in everything.
Now, that's difficult to do. He says in First Thessalonians, that fifth chapter, everything give thanks for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. And as we said before, sometimes pain can be very intense.
But He says, this is the will of God that you are not able to be grateful. So, when you see that, you back off and you say, Okay, God, and notice what this passage says. In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God for Christ, in Christ Jesus concerning you.
Now, in everything, in everything give thanks. Watch this. Sometimes I have to say, Thank you, God, I don't like it.
I wish it were not in me, I wish this were not happening to me. I don't like anything about this, God. But since I know that you're sovereign, and since I know that you love me absolutely, totally and completely, I want to thank you anyway.
There are times when you have to say, Thank you, God, when you don't feel it. You say, Well, now, that's being a mockery. No, it's not.
When you say, Thank you, God, you're breaking through that barrier that's trying to separate you from a loving God. And the confession of your mouth is an awesome, powerful thing. God, I don't like it, but I want to thank you anyway.
I'm going to thank you with my lips until I can thank you with my heart. And what happens is, all of a sudden, you have this awesome sense of gratitude and joy in your heart. You can smile and laugh and say, God, thank you for putting up with me.
Thank you, Lord, that you just ignored all that stuff I said. Thank you that you forgot all those complaints and moaning and groaning and asking you why. Thank you, thank you, thank you, God, that you loved me too much to take the pain away quite yet.
I can be grateful for what's happening because I know what the results will be. And that is, he's looking out after us. And so, he teaches us gratitude by allowing suffering in our life.
Then, of course, he teaches real character, perseverance. Listen, perseverance, steadfastness. And I love what he says in this Roman passage here because there's so many people who are quitters.
They're quitters. And I think about people who get saved and they go to church and they think, when I get saved, everything's going to change. Well, everything will change, but does that mean there's no suffering and heartache and pain?
No. Sometimes things get worse when you become a Christian. Well, I don't want any of that.
Well, my friend, think about this. A lot of times things get worse. But you know what God's up to?
He's letting the suffering begin early to do what? To begin. His awesome work in your life.
And so, when we think about how God works, listen to what. He says in. His fifth chapter of Romans.
He says, Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom also we have obtained our introduction by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God. Now watch this, and not only this, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance, and perseverance, proven character, and proven character, hope. And hope does not disappoint because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who's given to us.
Now think about this, here's what perseverance, perseverance says, I know it's hard, but I'm going to keep going. I know they're rejecting me, but I'm not going to stop. I know that I feel inadequate, but I'm going to keep on.
Perseverance doesn't give up. We live in a society where people are so willing to give up and quit because they feel like a failure because they failed at something. You remember Thomas Edison?
How many times he tried to invent a light bulb? Over a thousand times. And when people ask him about it, he said, I know a thousand ways it doesn't work.
Perseverance, so I want to ask you this, is there perseverance in your life? Do you persevere in your own private Bible study? Do you persevere to read the Word of God every day?
Do you persevere in your praying? Do you persevere in your giving? Do you persevere when things are tougher?
You give up and complain and moan and groan to God about it. Perseverance says, I'm not quitting. I'm not giving up no matter what.
There's something about perseverance. Perseverance builds character into your life. You're not a quitter.
You don't give up. So you miss that promotion, you're quitting and just pull up your stakes and leave, or you're going to keep going. You're going to keep working at it.
You see, when a person's living a God-led life, God will show you what the goal is. He'll show you what the real objective is. He will enable you in ways that you've never imagined.
But your heart's got to be pure, your motivation's got to be pure, and what happens? He builds perseverance. He builds character.
Perseverance is an awesome quality that God always recognizes, and I think. He will always honor that in some fashion. It depends on what's going on in your life and what God's up to.
Then, of course, He sends suffering into our life to enable us to share the sufferings of Christ. Now, what in the world does that mean? So, I'm going to go back to Philippians for a moment.
You say, what do you mean sharing in the sufferings of Christ? Listen to what Paul said in this third chapter. He said that he counted, more valuable than anything else, his knowledge of Christ.
And he said he wanted to be found in him, having a righteousness not of his own, but for Christ. And then he says in verse ten, he says, I want to know him, that I may know him and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of his sufferings being conformed to his death. Paul said, listen, he said, I want to know something about suffering because the Lord Jesus Christ gave.
Himself for me. He suffered those last three years of his life continuously. He got crucified and all the rest.
Paul says, I want to share in his sufferings. So, one of the reasons, watch this now, that God allows suffering in our life so that we'll have something, be able to feel at least something of how he suffered. Now, you and I will never be able to suffer like he suffered.
But if you'll notice people who seem to be in good health and everything sort of seems to be going their way and they never suffer about anything, it's very difficult for them to be sensitive to people who are suffering. It's difficult for them to really be sensitive and caring. They sort of want to avoid people who are suffering because it makes them feel uncomfortable.
It is the will of God that you and I suffer. There's no question about that. And let me just say this, there's a false gospel that floats around today.
The false gospel says that this is the will of God for everybody. Wealth, health, happiness, and prosperity. If you have faith, you'll have it all.
If you're sick and you're suffering, it's because you don't have enough faith. Do you realize what you'd miss if you were healthy all the time? If you had everything in the world, you'd know nothing about perseverance, you'd know nothing about character, you'd know nothing about spiritual maturity, you'd know nothing about the ways of God, you'd know nothing about the heart and the soul of Almighty God Himself.
What a false gospel that is, totally false. Well, the Lord God allows and sends suffering into our life for a number of reasons. And what you and I have to ask is, I may not always understand why.
I may not always understand what. He's up to, because sometimes it is very perplexing, but I know that. He has something wonderful in mind.
One of. His primary reasons for sending it is this, and that is to prevent pride in our life. And you remember what Paul said, I won't turn to that passage in 2 Corinthians.
He said, God allowed that thorn in this side. He said, listen to this. He prayed three times, probably three times of long periods of prayer, and God said, no.
He said, my grace is sufficient for you. Now, Paul had believed what people sometimes believe today about God will heal anything. It was the will of God.
And Paul said, it was the will of God to allow me to suffer for the simple reason. He has shown me so much truth that in order to keep me from being prideful, He just, shall we say, stuck it in my side. And no matter what I did, He left it there.
And nobody knows what it was, and it may not have been anything in. His side, but that was the way. He described it.
He said, in order to prevent me from becoming prideful. Now, one of the reasons I believe that's in the Scriptures is because of all the sins that you and I commit, the worst is pride. Because here's what it says, every other sin we commit says I have a need, whether it's a moral sin or whatever it might be.
But what does pride say? I don't need it. I can handle it.
Number one, number first, which God hates. So what does. He sends suffering.
And when somebody tells you. He does not, there's verse after verse after verse. For example, one of the reasons.
He sends suffering is to broaden the ministry. Now, let me just give you a personal illustration, and I'll say it very carefully. I went through a very difficult experience in my life that I would have thought and most would have thought would have absolutely destroyed my witness for Christ.
But instead, it flung the doors open because God knew my heart, not something that I could help, not something I could change, not something I could do anything about. But people who would not listen or watch before began to say to me, Now you know how I feel. Now you know what I think.
Now you know what it feels to be lonely. Now you know what it feels to be rejected. Now you know what it feels.
What could have destroyed did not. It flung the doors open. And what could have stopped the gospel with the Apostle Paul throwing him in prison, just opened the doors of opportunity for him to minister to the people he would never have reached?
He'd have never, listen, he'd have never met that bunch of Praetorian guards without suffering. So remember this, there'll be people who will come to you when you're suffering, who may not pay you any attention beforehand. God will put a concern in their heart for you, and they'll come and God will begin to work in your life and in their life, broadens the ministry.
And it broadens it in so many ways that you and I could never really fathom all of it. But these are at least a few ways. And then, let me just mention one other, and this is it.
It reveals, that is, suffering reveals the evil nature of mankind and the righteous judgment of God when. His judgment comes down upon them. And this is what he's referring to in First Thessalonians, that second chapter, because there is going to be judgment for the wicked, and there will be judgment, and there will be discipline in the life of God's people when we do not do what.
He asks us to do. And so, he speaks of that, of God's judgment. Now, notice what he says.
He's talking about the righteous judgment of God, that is, its right. And so, there are lots of reasons God allows suffering, people who live a sinful, wicked life. So, the question here is this now, all right?
In light of all that, how am I to respond? When suffering comes into our life, the right response is this, Lord, what are. You saying to me?
Does that mean. You should, You say, well now, suppose I'm hurting so bad, I just can't, I just don't care. I just want to get out of this.
Let me say this, ask. Him, Father, what is. Your purpose for this?
Help me to understand. Give me patience to bear this until I hear what. You're saying, understand.
Your purpose, and. You accomplish. Your will in my life.
Thank you for listening to He Uses Our Suffering. If you'd like to know more about Charles Stanley or In Touch Ministries, stop by intouch.org. This podcast is a presentation of In Touch Ministries, Atlanta, Georgia.